This week's listener question is in response to our previous episode "Toddlers Can't Share | Why forced sharing leads to people pleasing": I have a 2.5yo and an almost 4yo, and they sometimes snatch toys etc but often the play nicely, so I'm not always watching - so what if they are fighting over a toy and I didn't see 'who had it first'? What do you do in that instance if you don't know who was playing with it first? My girls don't understand 'who had it first' as Leah (my 4yo) would think she had it first if she had it yesterday  and my Kayleigh (2.5yo) just gets caught in the middle of it all poor thing, when she might have had it first.  Email your questions to [email protected] Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: ⁠⁠⁠⁠enquiryco.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Very Good Mothers Club⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): ⁠⁠⁠https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual⁠⁠⁠⁠!