Carla is officially 8 months this week & the baby shower has quickly arrived. Thank you for supporting the show & don't forget to send this to a friend! . . [8:00] Pet Peeve of the Week:  It’s another @WaxKyng take over for this segment as he confronts @carlawilmaris for the second week in a row. Carla quickly discovers that it’s not fun being in the hot seat!  What pet peeves do you have in a relationship? Email/DM us your experiences.  . . Main Topic: You Can’t Change People, Stop Trauma Bonding  Why do people go after the same type of person OVER & OVER again? Even when that person is distracting, disparaging, and just straight up… A BUM!  . It’s likely you might've trauma bonded with an ex and had no idea. This episode Carla & Wax talk about what it takes for a person to truly “change” and share personal stories about this message. . . Listener Letters: “My girlfriend recently got a vibrator, should I be intimidated?!”  . [36:00] 50/50 Court: My Partner Cannot Multitask This week Plaintiff Deja brings Defendant Keshad to court for his inability to multitask. Defendant claims multitasking isn’t possible and the Plaintiff’s request is impossible.  . . [44:00 ]Pass Da Word:  “You do your part and let God do the rest!” - @WaxKyng Mathew 5:44 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you. God always provides opportunities for you to remember WHO you are and WHAT you can do. This is your weekly reminder to take more responsibility and spread less blame!  . The “enemy” is actually a blessing!  ——————————————————— Connect with us: [email protected] @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng