Cheers to the New Year!  [2:30] Pet Peeve of the week: This week Carla and Wax dive into proper phone etiquette! Is it wrong for a person to put you on speaker phone without letting you know? [10:00] Therapist Couch: Wax and Carla started going back to therapy and continue to strengthen their communication and unpack patterns that cause conflict in their lives. Aside from drinking tea and telling the therapist that she’s wasting her time… Wax is learning a lot and this week he teaches Carla something in therapy! [24:00] Black Men and their Relationship To Vulnerability: The world has manipulated our society into thinking that vulnerability is “soft” or "weak" when in fact it's a very brave act. This week Carla encourages Wax to lean into being vulnerability and challenges him to “feel” his feelings instead of suppressing them. Wax in return challenges Carla to adopt multiple views of “vulnerability” and to not expect him to react in the same ways that she would to a situation. [37:00] Listener letters: 37:21 If you would like to seek advice fro Carla & Wax email us at [email protected] [51:02] 50/50 Court: This week we have a special 50/50 episode! Let us know what you think! [54:00] Pass Da’ Word: Malachi 3: 10 Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it. Amen!    Who’s Wax Care Package Give Away: The first 10 people who email us at [email protected] gets a chance to win The Who’s Wax care package. We are selecting: 10 people from CA 10 people from everywhere else Make sure to hashtag #WSSpod #WhosWax when you recieve your package Post on your social media and tag us to let us know you emailed us ——————————————————— Connect with us: [email protected] @whatevershesayspod @carlawilmaris @waxkyng @WhosWax ————