Anyone who has known me for more than five minutes knows that I am a "control enthusiast." I like my plans to be made in advance, my schedule to fall neatly into place, and my calendar to be without eraser marks.A cancer diagnosis is a great reminder that none of us are really in control of anything From one moment to the next, things can change rapidly. The day after Hannah set up my Facebook page, and just three days after being released from the hospital, we found oursel...