Setting boundaries is not easy and I went on a journey to have a deeper understanding of my psyche. For the first time in my life decided to prioritise my own happiness and it was the best decision of my life. I'm not going to lie but it really hurt when I lost people that meant the world to me at one point in my life. In a moment of self reflection I asked myself, "Is it a loss if they didn't care as much for me as I did for them?"