Episodes
on this episode, we talk about our evolving tastes and we run down our recent sa2afolos; including what we've been wearing, watching, eating, impressed by, reading, downloading and doing. let us know if you want more of these kinds of episodes!
Published 10/07/20
who are you when no one is watching? on this week's episode, we imagine how we would've been and what kinds of things we would've liked if social media wasn't a thing. we talk about the positives and negatives of being involved and invested in social media and why everyone needs to sit with themselves and try to get to the core of who they would be if they only were doing it for them.
Published 10/01/20
on this episode, we talk about our experiences growing up as the children of immigrants—the advantages of growing up between two cultures, the times we've felt the most and least american, which parts of our immigrant experience we wish we can pass on to our children and the shame that comes from being different.
Published 09/09/20
today, we talk about our favorite time of year: autumn. we discuss all our mood changes, how it's a perfect chance to start over, all our cozy plans and why we're determined to make it the best time ever.
Published 09/03/20
today, we open up with some ridiculous stories from our childhood, followed by a list of mama's advice that has impacted our lives. we talk about trusting your kids, a mother's intuition and the times you should take advice versus when you should go with your own instincts instead.
Published 08/26/20
finally, our long awaited episode! today, we're talking about dating outside of our culture. mna is the expert here so she takes the lead, but we both discuss our experiences, our anticipations and hesitations and the lessons learned along the way. **hager's edit: i realized i sound super passive aggressive towards mna in certain moments on this episode and wanted to clarify that she's my baby sister and i do love her. most days, anyway.**
Published 08/19/20
on this episode, we change our format a bit; we go from one-topic dominated episodes to a more multi-topic, current events style show. we talk about why we call ourselves 'arab' and the current discussion around the word itself. we also speak our dream futures into existence (fingers crossed) and talk about the state of utter sadness mna would be in if tiktok were to be banned for real.
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Published 08/13/20
on this episode, we answer your questions about friendships. we talk about maintaining childhood friendships, making friends as adults & the heartbreaking but sometimes inevitable friendship breakups.
Published 08/05/20
on this episode we talk about our own careers and about the idea of picking a career in general. we have a few giggle fits and discuss american career ideals versus those of the rest of the world. we also answer our first "not an advice column" question.
Published 07/29/20
on this episode, we talk about all the little lies and indirect messages that men (and sometimes women) tell while dating! we go into what they really mean when they're trying to avoid the telling the truths and all the red flags and warning signs you know you should've noticed.
Published 07/22/20
As we're all mostly still in the midst of a global pandemic, we've been thinking about the things that make us happy. On this episode, we talk about our personal experiences with happiness, how we redefine the word as we get older and if we think money really does buy happiness.
Published 07/15/20
We're back! And we're discussing a lot of what's happening in our communities and what's important to us: BLM, LGBTQI+ rights, coronavirus. Oh and we also give some of our own personal updates.
Published 07/01/20
On this week's episode, we talk about being represented; what types of representation we have out there, what the word means for each of us, and why it's okay to not feel 100% represented by other people's Arab experiences. This is a HUGE topic for us and we intend to have many episodes on this!
Published 05/20/20
This week, we talk about being vulnerable. We chat about why we're encouraged to be vulnerable to begin with, what it takes to be honestly vulnerable and what our hangups are about vulnerability.
Published 05/13/20
On this episode, we were inspired by the @werenotreallystrangers card game so we asked each other some questions in hopes of getting to know each other even more!
Published 05/06/20
On this episode, we talk to Alya Mooro, author of The Greater Freedom: Life as a Middle Eastern Woman Outside the Stereotypes, about her book and about the often ridiculous expectations placed on Arab women specifically (and women in general). We go from talking about how women are expected to look, behave and make decisions to discussing Alya's writing career.
Published 04/29/20
On this episode, we talk about our own versions of ‘law of attraction,’ how mama thinks a lot of it is b******t, and how hard times gave us the clarity to figure out what it is we really want for our lives.
Published 04/22/20
On this episode, we talk about the phrase: "what will people say?" We discuss our experiences with dealing with other people's judgement, how damaging it could be growing up caring about what other people think, and the things we can do to push through it.
Published 04/15/20
this week, we sit down to talk about our three coping mechanisms to get through this covid-19 quarantine: escapism, wellness and productivity. we talk about what we're doing these days, what we're thinking and how we're getting through what looks like the next month or more. we also delve into our boy obsessions and why we feel it's totally excusable to know everything about someone even before your first date. sorta. maybe.
Published 04/01/20
Listen to us talk about coronavirus and our need to constantly preach and tell everyone when they've done something wrong. We talk about stress, cancel culture and how to approach someone in a way that leads to conversation.
Published 03/19/20
Is dating for fun actually fun? Are dating apps worth it? Which ones are the best?
Published 03/11/20
We talk about the 5 things they've learned in the last 5 years. Hope you enjoy our (fake) wisdom!Follow us: @themeemshop || @yallabyepod
Published 03/03/20
On this episode we talk about how we deal with the hard times. Hope you enjoy!Follow us - @themeemshop | @yallabyepod
Published 02/19/20
Join us as we talk about social media culture, break ups and other highs and lows.Sa2afooloo- chasingcurious.substack.com
Published 02/04/20