“As a parent, the most important work we do is the work we do on ourselves. Learning to regulate our emotions, stay grounded and present, not take things personally...the list goes on and on. Up until recently, I believed the most important work we do as parents was to control our kids. This is what the mainstream, traditional approach tells us. This is what comes naturally (to most) as this is how -most of us- were raised. When I first came across the more gentle, respectful approach of parenting it resonated with my values immediately. That being said, it is HARD WORK to make the transition from the more authoritarian parenting approach. Accounts like Upbringing have been irreplaceable in helping me feel supported, and helping me trust my gut in parenting the way that feels consistent with my values. When I’m feeling drained from “mom-ing”, a quick listen to this podcast really fills my cup!”
kaylbake via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/15/21