Episodes
If you and your partner enjoy recreational sex and emotional intimacy, you might be Swolly! Swolly is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamorous relationships.  Are you Swolly?  Tune in to find out.  But first, mix up a Tennessee Peach, this episode's sweet and sophisticated cocktail while Ams fan girls over Bridgerton and shares her hot tale of a total mindfuck with a smart and sexy new partner.  Next, the Wives explore the difference...
Published 05/04/22
Did the 2HotWives succeed with their sexy homework on squirting?  Tune in to Squirting Part 2 to find out.  First, start with a pitcher of the episode’s cocktail, Strawberry Mango Sangria.  We suggest that you make it a day ahead to let the fruits infuse their flavor. Then, Kat recalls a particularly juicy hot tale while on the Bliss Cruise: a MFM threesome.   Then, the Wives share the ups and downs of their sexy homework: Ams takes the advice of sexpert Lola Jean and starts with...
Published 04/20/22
What’s the big deal about squirting?  Is it the same thing as female ejaculation? Does it always happen during orgasm?  Can every woman squirt? Is squirt just pee?  If someone gushes or dribbles, is that still considered squirting?  What’s squirt made up of anyway?  The Wives answer these questions and more, including an interview with Lola Jean, the Squirting Queen. But first, it’s ORGY time!, Sip this episode’s juicy cocktail, the Mango Rum Spritzer, while listening to both Wives share...
Published 04/06/22
Should I keep my fantasies in my head or should we actually play them out?  2HotWives answer all your burning questions.  In this episode, Ams and Kat take a deep dive into some of the topics that have been on your mind. The wives answer questions that cover lifestyle takeovers and clothing optional vacations, what atracts us to potential play partners and the chalenges that arise from being intimate with a close friend.  Finally, Ams and Kat reveal the biggest unexpected thing to come out...
Published 03/16/22
If you are single, the lifestyle (or swinging) may seem out of reach. For women, being a unicorn is as rare as the name implies.  That can mean too much attention from interested couples, plus it is hard to connect beyond the occasional sexual encounter.  It's even harder for single men who are treated as a dime-a-dozen.    One option? F*ck Buddies! More and more, single people are getting together to go on lifestyle dates and sexually open events. Their relationship is casual and fun, but...
Published 03/02/22
When the 2HotWives talk about house parties, it’s a 50 person, women-centric play party!  Are you curious about attending a house party?  Have you been invited to one and wonder what to expect? How should you behave at a house party and how can you host a killer party in your own home?  In this episode, the Wives take a second look at house parties and share advice (and some sexy stories) on what to expect, how to act, and how to host.  Are you a member of the 2HotWives community?  Then you...
Published 02/16/22
Sick of winter?  It's time to start planning a warm weather, adults-only vacation! Whether you are planning a trip to Desire, Hedo, Temptation or another adults-only resort, or just dreaming about it, check out our mini-episode with all of our packing tips and tricks. Learn about surprising must-haves, like name necklaces and drink tumblers, and what you can leave at home. Find the printable packing list on our website 
Published 02/02/22
Are you going to an adult theme party? Or maybe you want to host a house-party with a fun and sexy theme? Theme parties are an amazing way to have fun and explore a sexier, fantasy version of yourself.  But choose the wrong costume…or the wrong theme, and your steamy night could end in disaster! The Wives explore all the dos and don’ts for attending a sexy, adult theme party, including which themes to explore, which themes to avoid and where to find the best costumes. Check out  our special...
Published 01/19/22
2HotWives are back from Bliss Cruise 2021 and it was quite a vacation! An adult themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild Tune in to learn all about the playrooms, the pool scene, the theme parties and more. First, if you want a lighter drink to stay on track with your New Year's Resolutions, try the White Cranberry Smash, while...
Published 01/05/22
If you are looking for a sexy vacation, a swinger cruise might be for you.  An adult-themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild. In this episode, the Wives explore the basics you need to know before booking a swingers' cruise. First, before you start your New Year's Resolutions, indulge in the The Dirty Snowman, a very boozy...
Published 12/15/21
Does cannabis make sex better?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework: exploring different ways to ingest cannabis (vape pen, edible and flower), keeping a cannabis journal, and what sex was like when getting high.   First, check out Kat's latest cocktail: the Ginger Martini.  If you find yourself stuck in the kitchen during this holiday season, why not take some time to make your own ginger-infused vodka while listening to Kat's Hot Tale: A unicorn threesome gets downright silly with...
Published 12/01/21
Cannabis can make for a better sexual experience.  It’s science! If we could sell you a product that reduced anxiety, helped you feel more mindful, increased arousal and heighten orgasm for more than a third of women who try it, would you be interested? Of course you would!  What’s the catch?  Well, it’s technically illegal. Nevertheless, the Wives brave the possibility of jail time (or, more likely, a tiny little fine) to bring you their hands-on experience of cannabis use and sex.  First,...
Published 11/17/21
Are you ready to get the inside scoop on a public dungeon experience?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework, including attending a dungeon newbie night and an EDM and play party.  First, if you love pumpkin but are sick to death of a PSL, give this Pumpkin Rum Cider a try, while Kat shares a Hot Tale with Mr. Ams on the side of a mountain! Next, Kat shares her experience with a dungeon newbie night, complete with tickle bench and Shibari rope tie tutorials.  Then, Ams takes it up a...
Published 11/03/21
Is a BDSM dungeon on your sexual bucket list? You might be surprised about how actual dungeons operate. In this episode, the Wives explore public BDSM dungeons, including an interview with Dungeon East owner Mistress Justine Cross.  First, get ready for Halloween with this episode’s cocktail: the Black Widow, while Ams shares her first experience as a unicorn to another couple.  Next, the Wives discuss what a dungeon is and why you might want to visit one.  A BDSM dungeon is a room or...
Published 10/20/21
Let’s put hotwifing to bed, together.  Are you curious how the Wives completed their sexy homework on hotwifing? Did the single guys meet all of their expectations? How did the hot husbands react? Listen in to found out!   First, if it’s feeling a little nippy outside, check out tonight's cocktail, the Caffe 43, a yummy creamy coffee cocktail, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Kat and Mr. Kat check out a high-end strip club with another couple, then they take it back to the hotel...
Published 10/06/21
Are the 2HotWives actually hotwives?  The answer is not so simple.  In this episode, the Wives explore the kink known as hotwifing.  First, mix up tonight's cocktail, the Ginger Femme Chaude, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Ams recounts how a new sex toy leads to super-hot Sunday morning play with Mr. Ams.  Next, the Wives dive deep into the definition of a hotwife and hotwifing, including what it isn't (i.e. - cuckholding, swinging or a hall pass).  In particular, they discuss...
Published 09/15/21
Are you curious about a professional erotic massage? The Wives book sensual and fantasy massages at Desire RM and they are ready to tell you all about it! Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights.  We know you aren't ready for summer to end, so mix up a batch of Watermelon Margaritas while listening to a super-sexy Hot Tale!  Kat makes an immediate connection with a sexy cowboy at Desire and the sparks fly when she tries a new...
Published 09/01/21
Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights.  For many women, the idea of an erotic massage, whether it is with their primary partner or with someone new, is a huge turn on. The problem is that women don’t have any place to go to look for information. So the wives are here to educate you on erotic massage options.    First, mix up this season’s most sophisticated...
Published 08/18/21
Where’s the best place to do sexy homework?  An adults-only, clothing optional resort! The 2HotWives record LIVE from the Desire Riveria Maya Resort to recount their adventures in seduction and foreplay.   First, mix up some summer sweetness with a Frozen Peach Bellini.  Next, Kat gives Mr. Kat the ultimate fantasy experience, a unicorn threesome. Then, the Wives share their sexy homework experiences.  They start with new seduction techniques, dirty talk, and eroticizng daily activities....
Published 08/04/21
How is your flirt game?  When’s the last time you seduced your partner?  If sex is starting to feel a little routine, it’s time to brush up on your Seduction and Foreplay skills.  The 2HotWives put the fun in fundamentals with the sexy self-help book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay.  First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Peach Bourbon Sprizter, when listening to this episode’s Hot Tale! We know that you’ve been wanting all the details on the...
Published 07/21/21
Ams and Kat recap their experiences with Anal Play.   Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the Cherry Mule, while Kat let’s her dominatrix side run wild in this episode’s hot tale.  Next Ams shares the ups and downs of fitting ass training into a suburban MILF’s busy schedule (Ams, did you wear a butt plug to book club???) but after a false start, anal sex leads to “a whole new world” of pleasure.  Then Kat shares her experience of giving anal sex another try.  After a second...
Published 07/07/21
Are you curious about anal play but too afraid to explore it?  Never fear, the 2HotWives are ready to dive into all of those questions about “butt stuff” that you were too scared to ask.  Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the the Basil Cherry Smash, while Ams shares her hot tale, a house party reboot (take two and three).  Next the Wives shine some light on having sex where the sun don’t shine. They share their first experiences with anal play and what they hope to explore as...
Published 06/16/21
In this final bonus episode before the Wives launch Season 2, we have a little PCAP RECAP, complete with Hot Tales and all the deets on their live seminar: Just the Tips!  Five Tips for a Woman to Turbocharge her pleasure on a playdate.  First, Hot Tales, Podcast a Palooza edition: Ams and Mr. Ams make a new connection at the topless pool party, while Kat and Mr. Kat heat up the penthouse with some naughty Jenga.  Next, the Wives share some of the highlights of the best lifestyle event of...
Published 06/02/21
So much for a break! In this second installment of bonus content, the Wives share Hot Tales, answer a listener question and interview the smart and sexy Mallory from Casual Swinger.  First, the Wives each share a close-to-home Hot Tale that involves some impromptu restraints.  Next, the Wives answer a listener question all about attraction. How old is too old for sexy play? How attractive are people in the lifestyle?  What are some ways to work with what you’ve got and up your flirt game?...
Published 04/21/21
The Wives record bonus content while taking a little time off in Mexico!  Hear about their (mostly) vanilla vacation to Cancun, answers to hot topic listener questions and drop-in interviews with the sexy Ladies of PCAP! First, the Wives give a big shout out to Lauren from Room77 Podcast, who lined up an amazing villa and activities for their vacation.  Check out www.room77life.com for details on Lauren’s travel agent skills.  Next, the Wives tackle a very tricky listener question: would...
Published 04/07/21