In this episode, Ams and Kat take control in the bedroom by exploring domination, including an interview with professional Dominatrix, Queen Lo.   A Dominatrix, or Femme Domme, a woman who takes the dominant role in a BDSM power play experience. A Dominatrix is "in charge" in the bedroom, but are we all just dressing the part and not actually taking control? But first, mix up this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Rosemary Grapefruit Fizz, while Ams shares her Hot Tale: during the...

How did the Wives do with their sexy pornography homework?  Tune in to find out.  But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Cherry Blossom Smash: a yummy combination or cherries and blood orange juice with just a dash of cannabis tincture.  Sip on this delicious cocktail listening to this episode's Hot Tale: the Wives host a Barbarella-themed house party and they get up to no good, with flogging, blindfolded kissing, eight-handed massages, and more! Next, the Wives report back...

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn.   Pornography is sexual content designed to arouse, and let's face it, pornography is everywhere.  If you've written off pornography as not your thing, check out this episode for a fresh, feminist take on porn.  But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why not try this Canna-cocktail, the the Lemon Blackberry Mule.  Mix one up while listening to this...

How did the Wives do with their Tantric Sex homework?  Tune in to find out.  But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Orange Berry Tea with a new nano-tincture.  Sip on this delicious cocktail while Kat shares her Hot Tale: a professional massage gets a BDSM vibe with cupping and scraping.  Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework, inspired by Barbara Carrellas' book, Urban Tantra. Kat shares her tantra ritual with Mr. Kat, while Ams explored solo tantra, including...

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Tantric Sex.  Tantra is a complex and multifaceted spiritual and philosophical tradition that originated in ancient India. Tantric sex is the practice of using Tantric principles, such as mindfulness, breathwork and energy connection, to sexual experiences.  But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Hot Buttered Cider.  Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale:...

How did the Wives do with their Boudoir photography sexy homework?  Tune in to find out.  But first, check out this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Winter Berry Smash.  Thanks to a listener tip, Kat found a tincture that uses nano-technology for quicker absorbtion and a faster experience. Then, Kat brings it home with her Hot Tale: a threesome with the Wives and Mr. Kat.  Is he the luckiest man on the planet?  You decide.  Then, the Wives took a field trip to Nicole Marie's Boudoir...

Do you need to be "hot" to be successful in the lifestyle? In this episode, the Wives explore aesthetics and attraction in ENM relationships, including an interview with Coach April from Naughty Gym.   This bonus episode was inspired by a number of listener questions that the Wives have received, where listeners have shared their concerns and insecurities about looks in the lifestyle. So, do you need to be hot?  The answer is not simple.  On the one hand, lifestyle dating is a lot like...

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Boudoir Photography.  Boudoir photography is a style of intimate photography that captures individuals in a tasteful and empowering way, often in lingerie or semi-clothed, celebrating their unique beauty and sensuality. Boudoir photography can be a powerful tool for promoting self-love, body positivity, and empowerment. It challenges beauty standards and encourages women to embrace their uniqueness.  But first, if you are looking for a little buzz...

How easy is it to line up a threesome as a unicorn?  How about going to a sex club as a solo woman? How did Ams and Kat do on their sexy homework for Unicorn Threesomes?  Tune in to find out.  A Unicorn is a single woman in the lifestyle.  She may enjoy meeting and playing with other couples (i.e. - a Unicorn Threesome) or she may engage in all sorts of social and sexual activities with other people in the lifestyle.  Don't fence her in! Even though Kat and Ams are not single women, they...

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Unicorn Threesomes.  Unicorns, you say?  But unicorns are single women in the lifestyle and the 2HotWives are…wives!  Well, even though Ams and Kat are not unicorns, they can still be “guest stars” in a threesome. But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Apple Pom Spritz!  All you need is some apple cider, pomegranate syrup, and a little cannabis tincture! Mix one up while...

How did the Wives come up with "Use Your Words" and do they follow their own advice?  Do the Wives still play on the second date?  Does Kat still use her Bedazzler before each theme party? What other stories and advice from Season 1 is still true and what has changed? In this episode, Ams and Kat reflect on Season 1: the good, the bad and the silly.  The Wives developed the idea of the podcast while in COVID lockdown, thinking if they can't play, why not talk about it in front of a...

Which story was Kat's lie?  Did she visit the Red Light District in Amsterdam?   Did she spend three nights in an RV with five other swingers? Does she get "happy ending" massages twice a week? How about Ams? Did she have her first Cockapalooza? Did she go to a sex club in Barcelona? Did she hang out with Scott and April from Naughty Gym?   In this episode, the Wives reveal which stories from the last episode were true and which ones were lies. Get all the juicy details from the Wives'...

Did the 2HotWives break up?  Did they get divorced?  Maybe they set sail on the Bliss cruise and never returned??? The Wives are back to bring you an update on what's been happening in their lives since they last got in front of the microphone and to let you know that Season 4 will start on October 4th.  The Wives are excited to share new hot tales and sexy advice on swinging, polyamory and kink. 

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you. Is the reality of rape play as hot as the fantasy? Time to check in with the Wives on their homework!  Have you ever fantasized about being ravished...

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you. Have you ever fantasized about being ravished by a handsome burglar?  Did you grow up reading "bodice ripper" romance novels and want to play out the...

Time to check in with the Wives on their Exhibitionism homework!  Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person gets turned on by being naked or having sex while someone watches.  Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, enthusiastically consent to the experience, and that’s the kink this episode focuses on.  But first, check out this episode's cocktail, the Cucumber Gin Martini (classy!) while Kat doubles-down on exhibitionism...

Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others.  Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, are enthusiastically consenting to the experience, and that's the kink this episode focuses on.  But first, if you are looking for a light, end-of-summer cocktail, look no further than the Cucumber Lemonade. Mix one up while listening to...

  Time to check in with the Wives on their sexy homework from the book, Come as You Are, and the companion Workbook.  Author Emily Nagoski states that everyone’s sexuality is unique and normal.  That’s a wonderful and liberating message, but how can a woman learn about her unique sexual temperament from a book?  It’s time to dig a little deeper and pull out the workbook for sexy homework!   But first, if you looking for a cocktail that won’t weigh you down in these dog days of summer,...

Are you ready to unlock the mysteries of female sexuality? Come As You Are is a must-read for all vulva-owners and the partners who want to please them. In this episode, the Wives interview author Emily Nagoski on how her can help all women maximize their capacity for pleasure.  But before we dive into the details, mix yourself up this episode's Cocktail - the Blood Orange Mule, while Ams recounts a ridiculous attempt to buy THC-infused lube in California Then, the Wives FAN-GIRL over...

Get ready for the hottest homework of this season! In this episode, the Wives report back on their sexy homework with Bondage. But first, if summer shenanigans are making you feel run down, check out this episode's cocktail: the Bourbon Elixir.  And trust us, you will want a drink in hand when you listen to Kat's hot tale, steamy foreplay with not one, not two, BUT THREE men.  Then, the Wives share their sexy homework with bondage, including a sexy foursome, Dom/sub play and the kink that...

Bondage: what was once considered a taboo, dangerous kink is now a commonplace sex act that you can find in many a suburban bedroom.  But is restraint play for you?  Tune in to find out.   Bondage, or restraint play, is a common sexual fantasy, but how can you safely make it into a very hot reality?  In this episode, the Wives discuss what bondage is (including some sexy past experiences), who restraint play is for, and how to safely play with different forms of restraints.  But first,...

Were the Wives able to tap into some sexy pole dancing energy?  Tune into Part 2 to find out! In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen!   But first, the temps are up, so the drinks get nice and cold: the Strawberry Rum Slushie requires some freeze time so make...

In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen!   But first, mix up this episode's sweet and simple cocktail, the Blackberry Lemonade, while Ams recounts some hot times on the Bliss Cruise.  Next, the Wives explore the history and benefits of pole dancing.  Pole...

Can the 2HotWives walk that middle path between polyamory and swinging?   Tune in to Swolly Part 2 to find out.  First, start with the episode’s cocktail, the Blackberry Peach Fizz while Kat updates us on her sexy play time with a single guy.  If you dig a little upscale restraint play, this hot tale is for you.  Then, the Wives go deep on their journey toward Swolly.  Swolly is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamory extramarital...