In this episode of the 7 on Sundays podcast, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye delve into the complex challenges that young adults face during and after college life. They are joined by Lauren, who provides insightful reflections on Greek life, social expectations, and hookup culture. Lauren discusses the importance of self-exploration and emotional intimacy, highlighting the struggles that come with conforming to societal norms and the paradox of choice in college environments. The discussion emphasizes the significance of doing what you genuinely want and not caring about others' opinions to foster authenticity and genuine connections. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning 01:53 Welcome to 7 on Sundays: Exploring College Life 04:06 Social and Academic Expectations 06:41 Hookup Culture in College 13:58 We’re Losing How to be in a Relationship 17:30 Transitioning to Post-College Dating 21:58 The Loneliness Epidemic 26:18 Navigating Greek Life and Hookups 28:36 Rewards and Gender Differences in Hookups 32:20 Fear of Gossip and Rating Systems 33:45 Flying Under the Radar in College 39:34 Advice for College Freshmen 41:48 Wrap-up: Exploring Interests Outside Greek Life 45:39 The Importance of Authentic Connections 50:37 Final Thoughts