In this powerful episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby dive into the story of Sophie, who opens up about her experience with OnlyFans and the complexities of navigating desire, manipulation, and self-worth. Sophie shares how a trusted relationship initially led her into content creation, which soon became a path marked by emotional challenges, self-reflection, and hard-won insights. Stephanie and Dr. Chez explore the themes of codependency, validation, and finding...

In this emotionally powerful episode, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby engage in a heartfelt conversation with Laura and Beverly, two mothers who have navigated the profound loss of their children. Together, they share their stories, experiences with grief, and journeys toward healing. This episode touches on spirituality, connection with loved ones in spirit, and how Laura and Beverly found support and purpose through Helping Parents Heal, a supportive community for parents who have...

This is the second part of Harrison Haynes' story, a journey that dives deep into healing and recovery from the trauma that began with online grooming.  If you missed last week's episode, we encourage you to catch up before listening to today’s continuation. Prepare yourself for a deep dive into a story of survival, resilience, and the power of vulnerability. In this episode, Harrison bravely continues sharing his journey of healing after experiencing trauma from online grooming and...

Today, we’re diving into part one of an incredibly moving story with Harrison Haynes. If you’ve ever struggled with bullying, dubious online relationships, loneliness, or navigating the challenges of adolescence in the digital age, this episode is for you.  Why You Should Listen In this episode, Harrison shares his deeply personal journey of being groomed online as a young teen and how it impacted his mental health and relationships. His story highlights the dangers of online predators, the...

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive deep into a sensitive and often misunderstood topic: sexual choking. Joined by returning guest Joy, the conversation explores personal experiences, societal norms, and the implications of this practice in sexual relationships. This is a crucial listen for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of sexual relationships, particularly regarding the often-overlooked and dangerous practice of sexual choking. Joy...

In this powerful episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye engage in a candid conversation with Root, a survivor of sexual trauma. Root shares her deeply personal story, shedding light on the complexities of abusive relationships and the journey towards healing. This episode is essential for anyone looking to understand the dynamics of abusive relationships, particularly among young adults. Root’s bravery in sharing her story serves as a beacon of hope for others who...

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby delve into pressing mental health issues affecting young men, featuring a candid conversation with 24-year-old college graduate Thomas. The discussion sheds light on the high rates of suicide among young adults, influenced by societal pressures, toxic masculinity, and hustle culture. Thomas recounts his personal struggles and losses, underscoring the urgency of open dialogues, group therapy, and strong support networks....

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye discuss the profound challenges of depression and loneliness with guest Belle. The conversation delves into Belle's personal experiences with suicidal ideation, coping mechanisms, and the impact of college life on mental health. The episode highlights the importance of recognizing depression, creating a supportive routine, and reducing the stigma around mental health. Belle shares valuable insights and practical...

This episode of the '7 on Sundays' podcast, hosted by Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, dive into the controversial topic of smut, a form of erotic literature that is popular among teens and young adults. With guest Anne, a college student, the discussion covers her personal journey through fanfiction and smut, the psychological and societal impacts, and the normalization of content that often parallels the explicitness of pornography. Anne shares insights on how smut shapes sexual...

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye engage in an insightful conversation with college sophomores Bonnie and Beth. They discuss the challenges and dangers young adults face in seeking connections, particularly through dating apps and hookups. The discussion delves into the emotional repercussions of seeking validation through shallow encounters and emphasizes the importance of building genuine, meaningful relationships. The hosts offer advice on self-worth,...

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive deep into candid discussions with Sam, a recent college graduate, who shares her journey of navigating through hookup culture and finding self-worth. The conversation explores Sam’s personal experiences, the impact of early family dynamics on her relationships, the realization of needing more than superficial validation, and how she learned to set firm boundaries. This episode is a profound look at how young adults...

Dr. Chez and Stephanie take a critical look at the time honored tradition of fraternity and sororotiy hazing.  As kids head back to school, or are going to college for the first time they will likely make the decision to rush Greek life or not. What are the good and bad aspects of the Greek system. Why are we allowing others to tell us our worth?  How is it hurting young people? how could the system be improved?  Let's dig in! TIMESTAMPS [00:01:30] Introduction to sorority and fraternity...

In this 7 On Sundays Episode Dr. Chez and Stephanie explore sorority and fraternity hazing. Their guest, Sadie, shares the stories of her sorority hazing that ultimately caused the sorority to be booted from the campus and Sadie to drop out of the organization. 

In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye converse with Hannah, a sophomore at a large public university on the West Coast, about the challenges female students face when not involved in sorority life. The discussion delves into issues such as loneliness, the pressures of Greek life, non-consensual encounters at frat parties, and the broader hookup culture. Hannah shares personal experiences and advice on maintaining self-respect and authenticity despite peer...

In this episode of the 7 on Sundays podcast, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye delve into the complex challenges that young adults face during and after college life. They are joined by Lauren, who provides insightful reflections on Greek life, social expectations, and hookup culture. Lauren discusses the importance of self-exploration and emotional intimacy, highlighting the struggles that come with conforming to societal norms and the paradox of choice in college environments. The...

In this episode of the 7 On Sundays podcast, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive into a candid interview with Hope, who courageously shares her experiences with two significant and emotionally abusive early relationships. Discussing the intense emotional dependency and manipulation she faced, Hope provides detailed insights into recognizing red flags, trusting intuition, and learning from unhealthy relationships. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, setting...

In this episode of the 7 On Sundays podcast, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye tackle sensitive and often triggering topics surrounding the porn industry. Through Stephanie's candid conversation with former adult film star Cici, they explore the dehumanization and abuse experienced by women and men within the porn industry. They delve into the psychological and physical harm perpetuated by the industry, discussing the impact of conditioning, the lack of safety standards, and the...

Today we are re-airing an episode from Stephanie's podcast, Laid Bare With Anonymous X (still available on spotify and all podcast platforms). In this powerful episode re-airing on 7 On Sundays, host Stephanie Boye interviews Cici, a former porn star, who candidly shares her experiences and busts myths surrounding the adult film industry. Big porn is as corrupt and deceitful as all the other BIGs - tobacco, food, pharma. The discussion focuses on the harsh realities faced by performers,...

Do college students REALLY have an understanding of consent? The answer is “no." Many young people believe "yes" to hooking up means "yes" to any and all sexual acts. They mistakenly believe that "yes" to some sexual act yesterday, an hour ago or last week means "yes" forever to that act. None of these things are true. Whether due to failed sexuality education programs, rapey cultural messages, caregivers naivete and insecurity about how to properly educate children about consent, there are...

In this 7 On Sundays episode, Dr. Chez and Stephanie to to Brooke, a college student who bravely shares her struggles with genital dysmorphia, a form of body dysmorphia. Genital dysmorphia involves a constant concern about the genitalia. Body dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is diagnosed when an individual has a preoccupation with an imagined defect in their appearance or an exaggerated concern with minor aspects of their physical appearance. This preoccupation causes significant disruption in...

Purity culture is defined as a movement beginning in the 1990’s that promotes a religious view of purity to mean abstaining from sex and sometimes even dating, before marriage. Purity culture emphasizes traditional gender roles in relationships and encourages women/girls to dress modestly so that boys/men are not aroused sexually in their presence. The doctrines and teachings are rigid and stereotypical in regards to roles and burden of “purity.”  How does purity culture play out today for...

Today’s story is about Sara, a survivor of non-consensual pornography (NCP), by her on-again-off-again hook-up we call, Dick! For legal reasons Dr. Chez and Stephanie share this particular story, not Sara herself.  “Non-consensual pornography,” sometimes called “revenge porn,” is the sharing or distribution of electronic or printed photographs, pictures, or films that; show the g******s, anus, or female breast of the other person; or depicts that person engaged in a sexual act. The...

Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) and Domestic Violence (DV) affects millions of women worldwide. According to recent research, almost one in two women (47.3% or 59 million) in the US report experiencing IPV at some time during their lifetime (Leemis et al., 2022). According to The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, approximately 1 in 3 teens is the victim of dating violence.  IPV and DV may be considered the same thing, but they are not. Domestic violence is any abuse happening in the home....