Episodes
Life can get so hectic, especially in adulthood, that we sometimes forget to slow down and truly connect with those who matter most. In this episode, I'm joined by Kim & Gugu from Ginologist, for a heartfelt chat about the lessons in love all types of relationships have taught us over the years. And when I say love I'm talking all forms of love —friendship, family, romance, and self-care! If you're navigating a friendship breakup, looking to deepen your connections, or just curious about...
Published 09/08/24
Published 08/06/24
Checking into Hotel Mom and Dad?   Whether you’re moving back in with your parents or you never left the bird’s nest, living at home as an adult can be a wild ride. Maybe you need to save some cash, maybe it's comfortable & convenient, or perhaps you’re going through a tough time and need extra support. Look, we all have our reasons! In this episode, I’m joined by my good friend Tshegetso and we chat about what it’s really like to be grown up and still living at home. We share our...
Published 08/06/24
Friendship in adulthood can be challenging to navigate but also incredibly special to experience and both of those things have been true for me. I have grown, changed and experienced so much love through friendship, and strongly believe that we all deserve to have those life changing friendships. Join me in today's episode as I delve deep into how friendship has been an anchor in my life and share all the ingredients necessary to build and sustain deep, meaningful and long-lasting...
Published 07/07/24
Okay so a lot is changing… Including me! Y’all, its been way too long – 9 months to be exact - since we last chatted but According to B is officially BACK and needless to say we have a lot to catch up on! Believe it or not, your girl has officially entered the last year of her twenties and as you can imagine I have a lot of feelings about it. But don’t worry, today we get into all that as well as what a transformative time the lead up to turning 29 has been. We break down: - Big changes...
Published 06/20/24
✰ ABOUT ✰ In this week's episode I sit down with Thandi Gama to talk about intentional dating. Thandi shares what her dating experience has been like thus far and what intentional dating means to her. We discuss the values we looks for in a partner, navigating creating boundaries in a romantic relationships, how to navigate dating apps for better results and re-shaping our minds and relational expectations. ✰ MEET OUR CO-HOST ✰ Thandi Gama is a South African lifestyle content...
Published 09/24/23
Calling all dreamers and purpose chasers! This week is a bit of a different episode because first and foremost its a collaboration with Spotify Africa! Spotify invited me to record a podcast episode at their pop-up Greasy Tunes café and of course I said yes. This episode also has a video available to it so you can watch the conversation only here on Spotify if you'd like! ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this week’s episode I sit down with my friend and the co-producer of According To B Tshegetso! We talk...
Published 09/10/23
Get in girls! We’re getting vulnerable and talking about loneliness in the 20’s with Foyin OG aka Foyinla (and yes, she's here to fix our lives)! ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this weeks episode I sit down with Foyin OG to talk about navigating loneliness in the twenties. Foyin shares what her experience have been with loneliness, how it has affected her relationship with herself and others, what navigating it has looked like and how she has had to adjust her expectations to the realities of it..  ✰ MEET...
Published 09/03/23
Wear your crowns queens! We’re embracing our beauty and talking Miss SA 2023 with top 5 finalist Melissa Nayimuli! ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this weeks episode I am joined by Miss South Africa 2023 top 5 finalist and film and television producer Melissa Nayimuli. Melissa opens up about her experiences growing up as dark skinned black girl and how that shaped her ideas about beauty. Her experiences with colourism and xenophobia. Her journey in the Miss South Africa pageant, the significance of it to her...
Published 08/20/23
Get in girlies! We’re becoming the women of our dreams!  ✰ ABOUT ✰ In this week's episode of According To B, I am joined by creative genius, artist and overall sweetheart Candice Modiselle! Join us as we talk all about becoming the woman of our dreams and what that journey has looked like for better or for worse. Candice opens up about her journey of becoming, starting over and the long process of working through the triumphs and disappointments of this season. She also shares how she...
Published 06/04/23
This one is for everyone trying to successfully navigate adult friendships👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 ✰ ABOUT ✰ We’re back for another episode of According To B and my co-host for this one is fellow YouTuber, podcaster and creative entrepreneur Gugulethu Nyatsumba popularly known as Sis G.U! Join us as we talk all about adult friendships and her experiences navigating them. We also discuss adjusting to changing friendship dynamics, the importance of communication, space and healthy boundaries. Gugulethu...
Published 05/21/23
The first episode of According To B is here and my co-host for this episode is none other than the nation's songbird Shekhinah! Join us as we talk all about romantic comedies and how this film genre has impacted our expectations and perception of love and romance, and whether what we saw in the movies can and matches up to real life. Shekhinah expresses her views on romanticism, spills the tea on her favourite romantic comedy movies, breaks down her favourite rom-com tropes, how her views on...
Published 05/04/23