13. Breaking dating patterns
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I came to the pod to talk about forgiveness but ended up giving an update on my online dating exploits. Lol! I’ve met an interesting guy who’s bringing such different energy into my world that I think he might be the pattern breaker, should I choose to progress with him. I’ve always gone for a certain type of guy and it never works out. This feels like an opportunity to pick something different. Therapy has helped me to see and value guys like this, and to show up with more of the type of energy that can have a create a great experience. It’s been so valuable to engage with lots of different guys so I can see how much I’ve grown and can actively choose what I don’t want.
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Published 10/11/24
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