Join Dr. Regan for the second episode of the series "Talking About Autism." This episode focuses on how the thoughtful navigation of emotions during conversations about autism can create space and freedom for more discussions. New Course for Clinicians - Interventions in Autism: Helping Clients Stay Centered, Connect with Others, and Engage in Life New Course for Clinicians: ASD Differential Diagnoses and Associated Characteristics Dr. Regan's Resources Book: Understanding Autism in Adults and Aging Adults, 2nd ed Audiobook Book: Understanding Autistic Behaviors Autism in the Adult website Resources for Clinicians   Read the transcript: 00:00:05,740 --> 00:00:06,480 Hello, 3 00:00:06,490 --> 00:00:12,460 This is Dr Theresa Regan. Thank you for joining me for this episode of Autism in the Adult. 4 00:00:13,140 --> 00:00:19,260 I am happy that you're joining us for this series called Talking about Autism. 5 00:00:19,270 --> 00:00:37,150 This is the second episode, and I had originally predicted it was going to be about talking to others when you see autistic characteristics in them and you wonder if a diagnostic evaluation would be helpful for them? 6 00:00:38,740 --> 00:00:44,170 What happened is that, as I'm mulling around the topics for the series, 7 00:00:44,180 --> 00:00:49,560 I really couldn't get my mind off what was going to be the 3rd episode -- 8 00:00:50,140 --> 00:00:56,260 which I'm going to call "navigating emotional atmospheres"... when we're talking about autism. 9 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:13,790 And I've come to the conclusion that I'm going to cover that topic here in the second episode because I feel like it's really important to consider before we talk to other people about autistic characteristics. 10 00:01:13,790 --> 00:01:20,860 How would we navigate the emotions that are sometimes present around the topic itself? 11 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:39,160 Last episode we talked about Talking About Autism when you are on a journey toward evaluation yourself ... when you're considering that, or when you have a new diagnosis and you might want to talk to people about your diagnosis and about autism. 12 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:40,960 So, 13 00:01:40,960 --> 00:01:50,260 this episode is going to be focused a little bit more on navigating the complexity of people's emotional responses. 14 00:01:50,740 --> 00:01:54,850 And as we talked about in the first episode, 15 00:01:54,850 --> 00:02:03,690 it really is an emotionally charged topic and in some ways that's a bit mystifying to me. 16 00:02:03,700 --> 00:02:12,650 ... the amount of emotion people have about a topic that sometimes they're not even really impacted by on a personal level, 18 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:22,160 but talking about autism often does involve navigating emotional atmospheres. 19 00:02:22,780 --> 00:02:23,000 Um, 20 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:27,760 and it's hard to predict what the atmosphere is going to look like or how complex it is. 21 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:38,010 Sometimes the atmosphere may be charged because we would like to talk to someone about the topic and how it impacts, 22 00:02:38,010 --> 00:02:38,690 let's say, 23 00:02:38,690 --> 00:02:40,110 our own family, 24 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:44,600 or how it impacts someone in the family or how it impacts you. 25 00:02:44,610 --> 00:02:51,730 And there can just be this unusual response of 26 00:02:51,740 --> 00:02:53,630 a lot of emotional charge. 27 00:02:53,640 --> 00:03:04,360 I spoke with a young woman recently who was saying that she was shocked at how angry people in her family were when she brought the topic up. 28 00:03:04,940 --> 00:03:10,160 And that is not an unusual thing for someone to share, that 29 00:03:10,170 --> 00:03:12,310 it can really charge people up. 30 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:13,660 And um, 31 00:03:14,350 --> 00:03:17,440 sometimes you're not just bringing up a topic, 32 00:03:17,450 --> 00:03:22,560 you're bringing up