#228: Have you ever had a life-altering experience change the way you view friendships and dating? Today’s guests certainly have, and we’re getting every detail of their experience from reality TV to dating on the sidewalk. Today I’m sitting down with hosts of the new podcast On The Sidewalk, Chelsea Vaughn from Season 25 of the Bachelor, and Cashay Proudfoot from Season 3 of Love Island. From big chops to experiencing heartbreak, Chelsea and Cash dish about what it’s like to grow, love, and evolve in the public eye. We also talk about…How Chelsea and Cash navigated public breakups after being on reality TVForming a friendship over shared unique experiencesChelsea and Cashay’s hot takes on working in reality TV as Black womenHow to know if you’re ready for a long-term relationshipHow to manage your dating expectations ResourcesFollow Chelsea on Instagram @chelseavaughnFollow Chelsea on TikTok @chelseavaughn_Follow Cashay on Instagram @cashayproudfootFollow Cashay on Tiktok @cashayproudfootListen to Chelsea & Cash’s new podcast On The Sidewalk Keep in touch with Balanced Black Girl:Watch on YouTube @BalancedBlackGirlFollow on IG: @balancedles @balancedblackgirlpodcastFollow on TikTok @balancedlesVisit our website at balancedblackgirl.comSubscribe to our newsletter, Mirror Notes Sponsors:Nike | Nike’s Indy Bra and Universa Legging offer supportive flexibility and comfort for whatever your day brings. Shop now at nike.com.Foria | Enhance your pleasure with Foria. Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/balanced or use code BALANCED at checkout.Fatty15 | Fatty 15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health. You can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to www.fatty15.com/balancedles and using code BALANCEDLES at checkout.Delta | Delta Air Lines helps you feel at home, even if you’re 30,000 feet above it. Learn more at delta.com.Nurx | Nurx provides reliable reproductive and sexual health that’s accessible right from home – no judgment or stigma attached. Go to nurx.com/balancedles to get started. Results may vary. Not offered in every state. Medications prescribed only if clinically appropriate, consultation required.Vionic Shoes | The Vionic Vitals collection has the best essential styles for everyday wear to get you ready for the season. Use code BALANCEDLES at checkout for 15% off your entire order at vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.