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“Agree with others, content of podcast is good. It’s interesting, however, the lengthy and numerous ads completely ruin this podcast. Listened to one episode and doubtful I’ll continue. That’s completely excessive and will not recommend.”
Am141819 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
06/01/23
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“Season 2 is wayyyyy better than season 1, it’s worth the listen. Season 1 had a bit of victim shaming from the wife that was at times hard to listen to”
em2456 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/01/23
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“Yes the ads are very distracting and yes the production feels cheesy with the dramatic background music but I had to stop listening and unfollow when the hosts told the wife that she is just as much of a victim as the 15 YEAR OLD girl that was assaulted by her teacher. Do not give this podcast a...”Read full review »
rosegold221 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
06/01/23
“Story was great but way to many ads”
karen8196 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
06/01/23
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“Pro tip- wait until all of the episodes have released before you start the 2nd season so you can binge all of the episodes on the 3 day trial. Waiting for the rest…”
rff1234 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/31/23
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“So powerful, so good!”
Tanya123spa via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/31/23
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“I was cautious going into this when In the first
Episode she referred to victim as an affair partner. But I’m glad I stuck it out. Listening to the call between Jennifer and Spencer showed just how delusional he is and I’m curious how he covered it all those years. I also can’t help but wonder...”Read full review »
cjh304 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/30/23
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“Production wise this podcast is not bad.
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First thing, I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks it’s disgusting to hear Jennifer refer to her ex-husband as “Spence”. I didn’t see any other comments mention that the host did it as well but she did. So disgusting.
Hearing Jennifer...”Read full review »
0gtgirl0 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/30/23
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“The entire situation was fascinating and heart wrenching. This predator left a long path of destruction behind him: his wife, the teenaged girl and endless affairs with adult women. I thought we would hear about his background, his first wife and family .. where are they in all of this and the...”Read full review »
avh717 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/30/23
“It is too bad that the authors of this podcast didn’t cared more about the message getting out there, than they do for hooking people in and then advising the listener that if they want the full story, they’re making you pay for it. Nope, not happening.”
fcbeamsn via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/30/23
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“This was such a gripping story and I had to binge it because I needed to hear the whole story! Ashley has such a great style and delivery! Jenifer was such an empathic, kind person, that I was truly inspired. I know I would not have handled the interview with the wine bar friend with as much...”Read full review »
Corrine54321 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/28/23
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“The show sounds well made but after ten minutes I needed to turn off. Please include a trigger warning for parents of young children or victims of abuse.”
Alayna_PJ via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/27/23
“It has me patiently waiting for each new episode to play ! I am invested in a really good way ! (I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT WORDING OTHER MENTIONED THATS NOT RIGHT OR CRINGY THE PERSON SAID? I’m from CA and don’t notice or hear any such thing so ) keep them coming can’t wait lol”
Sinstina via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/27/23
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“Interesting stories and I do understand why people are complaining about the volume of ads but BY FAR the most annoying thing is that almost everyone speaking overuses the word AND and stretches it out in that annoying American way aayyaaaand then this aaayaaaand then that . Aaaaaayyyaaaand maybe...”Read full review »
BalkanNinja74 via Apple Podcasts ·
Australia ·
05/27/23
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“Listener. Beware do not start this podcast, unless you want to pay to hear the conclusion. you can listen to the first couple episodes for free and then they have you chasing the carrot to get the rest. Hence you’re the donkey it’s the carrot.”
The donkey and the carrot via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/26/23
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“The writing is basic, and the pacing is terrible. I couldn’t even make it through a full episode. What a waste of time.”
PalliativePaul via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/26/23
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“Yes, there are too many ads and it is distracting. More importantly, the season one and two stories are so important for all of us to be educated about. Thank you to Jen and Ashley for your courage in sharing your experiences.”
Fridayslb via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/26/23
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“Season 1:
The adult mistress (friend ) made me want to smash my phone. Saying she was groomed and she felt ugly and even compared her situation as a consenting adult to that of the 15 year old child victim.
She was a consenting adult. She made the discussion to have sex with her friend’s husband...”Read full review »
kaydog6969 via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/26/23
“As someone who is a survivor and worked with survivors of sexual assault, I found this podcast to be a breath of fresh air. That may sound ridiculous considering the trauma involved to the victims. However, talking about what happened openly can be healing for other victims and educational for...”Read full review »
Ptop5 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/26/23
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“The content of the podcast is very well done. My only complaint is the background music which makes the softer voices hard to hear and is distracting.”
PookieH00d1357 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/26/23
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“This new season is interesting so far. I cannot find any discussions online about it and I have a comment. What is the accent Ashley has where every time she says “something” or “anything” she instead says “somethink” with a K sound at the end? “Anythink.” It’s making me cringe every single time....”Read full review »
Lowojan via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/26/23
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“I have found season 1 and now season 2 absolutely captivating. The recipe the producers use in putting together the story is so enthralling it feels like a book you can’t put down.”
Trixie Cochise via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/25/23
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“I tried to listen to the first episode of season 2 twice. Too painful. Not the story, although I am sure this is a painful one for the victims and those around. But podcast has wise, the narrators delivery, especially that of Ms Faison, is way too slow and tedious.”
OkieDonkie via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/25/23
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“WAY too much time wasted on the repetitive commercials. It’s disruptive and takes away from the intensity of the dialogue.”
crymerson via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/24/23
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“Can’t even listen unless you have to pay 🙄 no thank you!”
valloda via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/24/23
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“Where are the new episodes and what did I pay for? One extra early?”
emdavis05 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/24/23
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“I enjoy this podcast!”
lucyturley via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/23/23
“The core emphasis of the podcast is great. It explores trauma through uncomfortable conversations that many people would avoid. I enjoyed the arc of the story and the careful, curious manner used in the interviews. But why wreck the genuine intimacy of care of those conversations with a constant...”Read full review »
Someone in Vancouver via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/22/23
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“Good podcast but the ads are so annoying. I listen to lots of podcasts and none have as many ads as this one.”
Bex ie via Apple Podcasts ·
Great Britain ·
05/22/23
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“Well made and interesting podcast. But, my god, the ad breaks—-I listen to a LOT of podcasts and this one often feels like more ad break than actual content, which becomes distracting.”
wordcakes via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/22/23
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“I started listening to this podcast, I found it very interesting. But then all the women that had an affair with this guy started being made out ti be victims. Grown women were blaming this guy for seducing them into affairs. They admit some guilt, but still say that they were “groomed”. I don’t...”Read full review »
kemp1980 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/22/23
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“Great show but the rate at which new episodes are released is way too slow considering they’re paid for…”
sarahbustami via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/22/23
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“First time subscriber to this podcast. I liked the host and the people who are telling their story. Even though it’s hard to hear. I think it’s very brave!!”
americanfemale via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/22/23
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“I really enjoyed listening to Season 1, now starting on Season 2. I am struggling with accepting those women as victims though. The 15 year old was well and truly the biggest victim in this story. The other women were adults, most probably married, who chose to sleep with a married man.”
ALLJ80 via Apple Podcasts ·
Australia ·
05/21/23
“When I heard the term betrayal trauma, it was like putting on a pair of glasses after wearing the wrong prescription for 20 years. When the symptoms were listed, it wasn’t even like checking off the symptoms, it was like listening to someone describe my entire personality.
The podcast gave me...”Read full review »
PCBunnygirl via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/20/23
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“Listen to Season One and it was great, listen to episode 1 of season two and now all of a sudden episode two you need a subscription.
Why??”
noons21 via Apple Podcasts ·
Australia ·
05/20/23
“I am listening to the light and love in the first season of a terrible situation. Sometimes your younger self doesn’t even realize till years later “ wow it was weird my gym teacher talked about my boobs and paid me to stay late at school to just help out”. You openly trust adults because isn’t...”Read full review »
Dalleyh via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/19/23
“Absolutely fascination, and gives women a platform to discuss their truth and educates the listeners about what is happening in the community. Well produced, honest, and a public service to community life.”
NYTreview via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/19/23
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“I thoroughly enjoy this podcast. The title reveals that it’s not about sunshine and rainbows so it’s obviously going to be a subject that makes some uncomfortable.
The interviews with the people that were involved in the actual betrayal were insightful and felt like we got to hear all...”Read full review »
Gemma 1226 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/19/23
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“Seriously….how can you continue to make this all about you. It is shameful what you are doing.”
matilda65 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/19/23
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“You can tell this will be an incredible second season. Can’t wait to hear more.”
dmosuave via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/18/23
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“Very interesting and well done podcast but I am trying to listen while working with my hands and the ads are so distracting it’s hard to follow the story”
schimeck via Apple Podcasts ·
Canada ·
05/18/23
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“Having only the first episode for free is disappointing. I only found out after listening to the it, unfortunately. Otherwise, I would have avoided listening altogether. Sad.”
kersakdave via Apple Podcasts ·
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05/18/23
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“I wasn’t sure when it first started how I would enjoy it. I think the podcast is about more than the story of his crimes. It’s about understanding how these things start. How people like Spence compartmentalize. It could help people recognize manipulators and abusers. It’s an interesting and...”Read full review »
Geumpyhistory via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/12/23
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“This podcast is really good. I feel like the negative reviews missed the plot. Betrayal is the wife’s story. The story of the student he SA’d is NOT her story to tell.”
Rhea_SG via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/11/23
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“This actually started off strong and I respect Jennifer for telling her own story. But how she could possibly think interviewing the victim her ex husband sexually assaulted herself was in any way a good idea is unthinkable. It was so uncomfortable to listen to and felt completely beyond the...”Read full review »
DevKeegs108 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/09/23
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“This story is real life and so thankful for the shares. These are the stories we need to hear about and educate ourselves on!”
anwanw1983 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/04/23
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“There was sexual assault with a child and every episode routes back to Jennifer being “the”victim. We get it that your husband lived a double life, but you can stop making this all about you. It feels cringy to listen to her self-absorbed comments. This could have been done so differently to show...”Read full review »
jle1216 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/04/23
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