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“I have always felt so alone and ashamed to have been married to an abusive man for so long. It’s so incredibly comforting to find other women who have come out the other side. It’s shown me that there is hope and I don’t have to live the rest of my life with this constant abuse.
All these things...”Read full review »
slimyfox47 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/04/24
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“Love how she fights against victim blaming and calls a thing a thing. I most confidently relate to this’s podcast of all the very good podcasts on this subject. It is abuse. Pornography, sexual entitlement, objectification of women and female bodies, and all the hurt, harm, destructive behaviors...”Read full review »
Purely M via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/02/24
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“I found this podcast when I was looking for support with my husband’s long term porn use.
I find validation here, as well as finding who I am in the unstable environment he creates with his behaviors and choices.”
LovenMercy via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/30/24
“Podcaster has limited insights and seems to have an angry agenda. I was not impressed and felt most of the sessions were whiny and stuck in victim mentality. Podcaster needs more awareness of deeper psychological issues and methods of healing and transcending a devastating situation. She seems...”Read full review »
Rfisler via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/30/24
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“Listening to these podcasts is so validating. For years I felt shame for “Letting it get to me” after all these years. Hearing that is was abuse makes it clear why it still impactful. Wish I found this 7 years ago”
Teacher and mom! via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/24/24
“I been married to a man that’s paraplegic and suffers from depression unfortunately and I’d excuse him so much even with his abuse and porn usage. It got out of hand when we would go out on dates or just go out In general he would overly stare at women to a point he would feel uncomfortable and...”Read full review »
Jess and Andrew via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
09/15/24
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“I’m not religious and I still get a lot out of this podcast. My husband married me with no intention for me to be his primary source of intimacy. That’s abusive. When I tried to have conversations about our lack of intimacy he screamed, threatened or stonewalled. Also abusive. Him making a...”Read full review »
Kjindigo via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/27/24
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“There can be no comprehension of the depths of suffering until you’ve personally experienced this form of trauma. Finding other women who UNDERSTAND, can provide support & wisdom & practical advice is priceless. I thank God for leading me to this podcast!”
amberendler via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/13/24
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“I first heard Anne as Robin Stern’s guest on the gaslight effect podcast, and wow I was immediately blown away, just everything Anne said resonated big time - I couldn’t wait to look at the show notes and find the BTR.ORG podcast - I was not expecting to have such a profound reaction to what I...”Read full review »
Gorgi99 via Apple Podcasts ·
Great Britain ·
07/06/24
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“Until I found this podcast, I didn’t realise it was abuse. Thank you so much…. My eyes are open. After 27 years I got divorced. X”
NamasteCLotusFluff via Apple Podcasts ·
Great Britain ·
07/03/24
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“My therapist recommended this podcast to me and although I enjoy the content, I get frustrated when interviews suddenly get cut short or I have to wait a week to hear the rest of the episode. By the time a week has past I have to relisten because it’s out of sequence. On the positive side, I...”Read full review »
JaminIsSlamin via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/07/24
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“I am so thankful I stumbled upon this podcast. The information is so helpful for anyone dealing with an addicted spouse. The concepts apply to any type of addiction as well as narcissistic abuse. It is all abuse.”
TX attorney mama via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/04/24
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“I know, I know, it sounds hyperbolic to say that in the BTR world “everything is abuse” but just listen for yourself. Any disagreement between husband and wife is abuse of some sort. That means the husband is “an abuser.” Who wants to be married to an abuser, am I right?! The answer (according to...”Read full review »
jollyave via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
05/04/24
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“I’m so thankful for finding this resource 1.5 years ago. I knew something was wrong in my marriage but could not quite put a finger on what I was experiencing because he had not hit me “yet”. The only thing I knew was that I was scared and unsafe. He then became physically abusive after 20...”Read full review »
Hitching a ride via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/06/24
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“I have been in relationship after relationship and therapist after therapist and finally, the bypassed experience of living with men that use porn, avoid personal responsibility, and keep separate bank accounts is being called out! TY!!! I would like to start trending a term called...”Read full review »
TheWatertree via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/06/24
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“Kinda of an agenda-oriented presence when the host continuously offers that porn using partners equal abusers.. even if they are getting help. It’s pretty one sided. The guests clearly shares sentiments with no sense of challenge. I can’t imagine how else they got onto the show. This is...”Read full review »
daweh via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/05/24
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“As the one who has betrayed my partner, this review may seem odd. The betrayal of my partner was disclosed 6 months ago. Ever since then we have been on a path to help her heal. I have listened to countless podcasts and webinars. As I have discovered that not only did I bring infidelity into our...”Read full review »
Redbarn Joe via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/02/24
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“Some good stuff, some odd options stated as fact, a lot of self-promotion.”
BRED13088 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/30/24
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“BTR has resources that can help you identify what is actually happening to you. Once you get some clarity, you are better able to see ways to help yourself. Listen to the podcasts. Go to the groups. Use the terminology within the podcasts to find different podcasts and blogs of other ladies who...”Read full review »
Dmytexas via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/17/24
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“This podcast, and Anne’s perspective on porn use, was instrumental in my healing from betrayal! So grateful for the work she’s doing as it was not readily accessible to me back when I first went through betrayal in my marriage. Even in retrospect, her perspective has helped me grow, heal, and...”Read full review »
Stacey Fitz via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/14/24
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“This is a safe and knowledgeable podcast. You aren’t crazy and this woman helps you gain your strength and dignity back. ❤️ to you all.”
earthsheart via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
03/12/24
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“This podcast has been so eye opening and very validating of my feelings, emotions, experiences and trauma. I had never heard of anyone so blatantly calling porn addiction, emotional and verbal abuse and cheating a domestic abuse issue. But it is!! It has been a painful journey for me but I...”Read full review »
Betrayal Trauma via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/29/24
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“I love the show and find it very informative. I just wish there were less advertising and more of the guest. The majority of the show is not the person being interviewed but filler.We women going through this might not have tomorrow or next week. Sometimes someone might say something that really...”Read full review »
Skittle1249 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
02/09/24
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“I found this podcast recently, and I really needed to hear that a secret porn addiction is abusive. Thank you, BTR!”
not beaten via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
01/28/24
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“Great help to make women realise they are a victim. Very supportive of hurt women.”
!Moonstar! via Apple Podcasts ·
Great Britain ·
01/18/24
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“Thank you for this podcast . I am a victim of betrayal trauma and this podcast has opened my eyes and has given me hope.”
Sue 0325 via Apple Podcasts ·
Australia ·
11/30/23
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“I am very recently out of a long term abusive marriage. I did not realize I was being abused. What I’ve learned is that I was not alone. There are a lot of women in abusive relationships who don't understand what’s happening or like me were told by a couples therapist that I should be doing...”Read full review »
Gaslight no more via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
11/01/23
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“Thank you for helping women who have been in emotionally or sexually abusive relationships and for calling out pornography as abusive. Pornography destroys relationships! Pornography sees women as sexual objects to be used.”
dollbud via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/25/23
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“I feel so very alone trying to navigate my husband’s betrayals of porn addiction and physical affairs. I listen and relisten to the podcasts during my alone time. I realize that I am not the only one broken by betrayal and abuse. Women experiencing being in the absolute pit of despair have...”Read full review »
Clawing my way up via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
10/05/23
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“Excellent resource, thank you”
ChrisinCarefree via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
09/08/23
“This podcast is so good, so true.”
downwardcat via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
09/05/23
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“Anne does an incredible job exposing abuse, especially the subtleties and the underlying belief systems that allow abuse to fly under the radar. She has a lineup of guests, including well-known experts, that leave no stone unturned. Episode by episode the picture of abuse becomes crystal clear,...”Read full review »
bartrine via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/23/23
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“Navigating life after abuse is difficult and it’s hard to know what is real and normal after leaving abuse. BTR talks about the hard and yet offers hope that it is possible to overcome what was done to us and that it doesn’t have to negatively impact the rest of our life.”
Kndgardner via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/17/23
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“So thankful for this podcast. I found BTR through insta and after a year or more of not being sure if I wanted to confront myself with difficult truths by listening to the podcast. But I finally did last week. I’m so so thankful and so relieved. Why on earth did I wait so long. I’m not insane or...”Read full review »
Lirajaphir via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/12/23
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“I appreciate this so much! It answers everything.”
Heather Dd. via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/03/23
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“This podcast is a god send for victims who need help navigating their confusing and often traumatic relationships. Abuse can be so confusing and isolating. BTR comes alongside victims to walk them out of the fog.”
Hmille3014 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/31/23
“So many useful tools in navigating 15 years of abuse by my x on all levels. I am a frequent listener and have benefited from btr content soooo much!”
akhanna via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/28/23
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“As somebody be who’s going it alone I needed this. Thank you for helping bring a lot of this to light and providing support for me. I’ve needed this. Y’all are amazing.”
daina031 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/26/23
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“I would love to meet Anne someday since she speaks a language only abuse survivors know. I am also from Utah, also divorced now from an emotionally abusive man who was addicted to porn, plays the victim Mr. Nice guy, and was sexually exploitative. I’m navigating my healing journey while raising...”Read full review »
Speech_Chick via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/11/23
“I wish I would have found this podcast YEARS ago. There are so many topics covered that I never knew I needed to learn about. This is such a huge part of my healing journey and I love that it has a faith based perspective, but calls out the religious and spiritual abuse that so often further...”Read full review »
KadiPrescott via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/22/23
“Shortly after learning about my husband’s many infidelities throughout our entire marriage, I came across this podcast. I had never before been able to put a name to what happened to me throughout my 13 years of marriage. No one really knows what it’s like unless they KNOW, and it can be a very...”Read full review »
PurpleLinen via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/18/23
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“I started listening to this podcast very recently even though my marriage to an abuser ended 3 years ago, and I feel I have finally found a safe place to process all that I experienced during the 10 years I was married… I’ve been plagued by doubts ever since, especially because he insisted prior...”Read full review »
mrschallans via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/16/23
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“The show is very helpful, however the topic titles are not. I’m sometimes frustrated that the titles of the episodes aren’t necessarily the main topic of conversation.
Thank you so much for this podcast. I’ve learned so much.”
MrsP3tey via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
06/09/23
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“I had gotten connected with BTR through a friend, hoping to work in healing my church trauma. In the middle of working with a BTR coach for the church trauma, I found out my husband had been using porn and lying to me. I don’t know what I would have done without BTR being there to support me and...”Read full review »
abbyh82 via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
04/30/23
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