In this episode, Avia Aiken-Brown and Zhara discuss the challenges and joys of marriage. They explore the idea of marriage as a mirror, reflecting both the beauty and weaknesses of individuals. Avia shares her personal love story and the importance of choosing love every day. They also discuss the challenges of transitioning from friends to a romantic relationship. Avia and Zhara highlight the importance of resolving issues quickly and creating a peaceful atmosphere in the home. They also discuss the impact of hormonal changes on emotions and relationships. This conversation explores various aspects of marriage, including the importance of alone time, understanding introvert and extrovert tendencies, the purpose of marriage for holiness rather than happiness, the refining process in marriage, the joy of long-suffering, the work required in marriage, supporting a spouse with chronic illness, and managing triggers and expectations in marriage. The conversation emphasizes the need for communication, self-awareness, and seeking counseling to navigate challenges and strengthen the marital bond. Takeaways Marriage is a reflection of both the beauty and weaknesses of individuals.Choosing love every day is essential for a successful marriage.Transitioning from friends to a romantic relationship can be challenging but rewarding.Resolving issues quickly and creating a peaceful atmosphere in the home is crucial.Hormonal changes can impact emotions and relationships. Alone time is important in a marriage to balance individual needs and recharge.Understanding introvert and extrovert tendencies can help partners navigate social dynamics and respect each other's boundaries.Marriage is meant for holiness, as it refines individuals and brings them into greater alignment with the Lord.Long-suffering is a necessary aspect of marriage, requiring patience and endurance.Supporting a spouse with chronic illness involves practical care, empathy, and understanding.Triggers in marriage can be managed through self-awareness, communication, and seeking counseling.Managing expectations in marriage involves recognizing and addressing unrealistic assumptions.Individual and couples counseling can provide valuable support and guidance in navigating challenges in marriage.Connect with Avia here: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/aviaiken/?hl=en Connect the Host Follow Zhara on Instagram @ zhara.marie - https://www.instagram.com/zhara.marie?igsh=cDdiaGtrODRpcmtr&utm_source=qr Follow our podcast page @beyondthebouquetpod - https://www.instagram.com/zhara.marie?igsh=cDdiaGtrODRpcmtr&utm_source=qr