Episodes
Published 05/14/24
In this episode of the Beyond the Bouquet podcast, the host discusses the importance of praying for one's husband. She shares her personal experiences and the prayers she offers for her husband's spiritual growth, protection, health, integrity, and leadership. She emphasizes the need to separate the person from the issues and to approach challenges as spiritual warfare. The host also mentions the upcoming changes for season two of the podcast, including seeking sponsors and launching a Patreo...
Published 05/14/24
The conversation explores the topic of sex drives in marriage and how they can vary between partners. The Zhara and Paige discuss the challenges of balancing sex drives, especially in different phases of life such as newlywed, professional, and motherhood. They emphasize the importance of communication, understanding each other's needs, and creating a conducive environment for intimacy. The conversation also touches on the impact of hormones, emotions, and body changes on sex drive. The...
Published 05/07/24
The podcast episode emphasized the importance of viewing sex as a pleasurable experience rather than a chore and addressed the need to confront any feelings of guilt, shame, or misconceptions surrounding sexual health and contraception. Here are key points to expand on this topic:Sexual Pleasure: The discussion highlighted that sex should be a beautiful blessing and a source of intimacy and joy within a marriage. It should not be seen as a duty or task but as a way to deepen the connection wi...
Published 04/30/24
In this episode of the Beyond the Bouquet podcast, Zhara interviews financial expert Renate McDonald about the importance of understanding financial freedom as a wife. They discuss the myths and misconceptions surrounding couple finances and the need for both partners to be involved in financial decision-making. Renate emphasizes the importance of open communication, visibility of accounts, and joint responsibility in managing finances. They also touch on the topic of investments and provide ...
Published 04/23/24
In this episode, Zhara discusses the topic of embracing new beginnings and starting over as a Christian wife. She encourages listeners to navigate transitions with faith, courage, and grace. Zhara shares personal stories of trying new things and taking leaps of faith, emphasizing the importance of embracing change and redefining one's life at any point. She addresses common fears such as failure, judgment, and the fear of the unknown, reminding listeners that it is never too late to start...
Published 04/16/24
In this episode, Avia Aiken-Brown and Zhara discuss the challenges and joys of marriage. They explore the idea of marriage as a mirror, reflecting both the beauty and weaknesses of individuals. Avia shares her personal love story and the importance of choosing love every day. They also discuss the challenges of transitioning from friends to a romantic relationship. Avia and Zhara highlight the importance of resolving issues quickly and creating a peaceful atmosphere in the home. They also...
Published 04/09/24
In this episode, Zhara interviews Tasha Lowe about her experience with love across borders. Tasha shares her background and how she met her husband. She discusses the challenges of maintaining a long-distance relationship and the decision to break up and reconcile. Tasha also talks about her second experience with love across borders during the COVID-19 pandemic and the emotional struggles she faced. Despite the difficulties, Tasha finds support and strength in her faith. In this...
Published 04/02/24
In this episode, Jhoni Lee shares her experiences and insights on marriage and the challenges that come with it. She discusses the expectations vs reality of marriage and how it differs from her initial perceptions. She discusses the importance of communication and emotional support in a relationship, highlighting the need for understanding and empathy. Jhoni-Lee also talks about the role of spiritual growth in her marriage and how it has helped her and her husband navigate challenges.  She...
Published 03/26/24
Summary In this episode, Zhara and Yashieka discuss the painful topic of child loss and navigating the depths of grief. Yashieka shares her personal experience of losing her son and the impact it had on her and her husband. They discuss the importance of support from friends and family during the grieving process and the challenges of facing the silence after the loss. Yashieka emphasizes the significance of therapy in coping with grief and finding ways to manage life without the child. They...
Published 03/19/24
In this episode, Stacia and Zhara delve into the complexities of balancing motherhood with other roles and responsibilities, shedding light on the challenges and emphasizing the necessity of a supportive community. They stress the importance of creating a village to navigate the demands of motherhood, recognizing that different seasons may require shifting priorities. Their conversation delves into the impact of children on marriage, underlining the need for open communication and support...
Published 03/12/24
In this solo episode, Zhara discusses the topic of early marriage and debunks myths surrounding it. She emphasizes the importance of considering God's plan, being ready for marriage, and stepping out in independence. During the discussion she highlights the advantages of getting married young and challenges negative stereotypes and comments. Listeners are encouraged  to focus on becoming a better version of themselves and reminded that marriage is a partnership. The episode concludes with a...
Published 03/05/24
In this episode, Zhara welcomes guest Nicole Kenwood-Brown to discuss the topic of manipulating pain for purpose. Nicole shares her personal journey of being a self-sacrificial lamb and the challenges she faced in finding balance and prioritizing herself. She emphasizes the importance of self-identity in marriage and the need to become a different person to attract a different version of your spouse. Nicole also highlights the role of research, creating a vision plan, and shifting focus from...
Published 03/05/24
Hey, wife friend   this is Zhara  and I am absolutely thrilled to welcome you to Beyond the Bouquet. Oh my goodness, it has been a dream of mine and you guys know that I like to start things and sometimes just kind of chicken out. But I really am excited to bring this podcast to you for those who don't know me. I am an entrepreneur. Sometimes I'm a lawyer. That's kind of like what I went to school for. I did go to law school. I do practice a lot sometimes. Anyways, but I'm a Christian...
Published 02/29/24