Listener question: I know I'm a direct person, but I'm being told I'm aggressive. How do I know the difference?  I have personal experience with this topic in two different different ways and suggestions of how to navigate them:  First, you need to ask for specific examples of situations in which you were labeled “aggressive.” Then, you need to explore what type of discomfort you want to choose: shifting your communication or allowing others to feel discomfort. Finally, you get to decide who you want to be in each situation, including changing your situation. To submit your question for me to answer on an upcoming episode, send me an email at [email protected] You can be a woman in tech and enjoy your career. When you build the skill of bravery, you will stress less, work less, and then earn more. Check out the following resources designed to help you thrive in your career:  Check out my website Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration Connection with me on LinkedIn