0:00 intro 2:54 you’re not crazy for wanting to be attractive 7:58 the only thing worse than feeling ugly, is other people thinking that you’re ugly 9:17 avoidance behaviour 13:24 race 16:41 what do you hope to gain from not being ugly 21:46 Inherited attraction v earned attraction 26:22 your identity can be shaped by you or it can be shaped by everyone else 31:15 outro