In this first installment of our periodic Ask the Shrinks! episode, Barry and Phil get together to discuss some of your questions. They cover a lot of territory, including the value of uncertainty and flow, how to use "the turnaround," the importance of mental hygiene, the part of Grateful Flow people often skip, how to use the Tools with your kids, and how to deal with people who are stuck in a victim state. Visit www.thetoolsbook.com to submit your question for future Ask the Shrink! episodes.