121| When Men Misinterpret Why Women Have Sex - David M. Buss
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In this episode David M. Buss gives advice on: - How David became interested in this topic and area (04:25) - David's current view of the whole area of mating, sexual strategies, etc. Is the view from a combination of the evolutionary / psychology aspect or is there a different view considering all of David's work? (07:15) - An explanation of EPC - Extra Pair Copulation (12:00) - David's current relationship and social lifestyle, and his personal perspective (12:55) - Common misunderstandings about Evolutionary Psychology and how it applies to sex and mating strategies in the media, publications, etc. (14:05) - A trend in low testosterone and the modification of testosterone levels in men to improve their libido and psychology (18:25) - The most uncomfortable research conclusions David has come across (20:00) - Long term mating relationships versus short term mating relationships (23:38) - The most common or biggest misperceptions of sexual interest (e.g. when women are showing interest, or not, in men): sexual overperception bias (25:08) - Underlying sexual motivations of women (30:10) - Is diversity and the sexual motivations of women driven by psychological differences, biological differences, situational differences, or social economics? (36:54) - The variability of a woman's sexual motivations from day to day (41:14) - Sexual exploitability cues regarding short term and long term mating (45:38) - How men misinterpret signals from women that lead to misunderstanding (51:09) - How to connect with David to learn about more about him and his work (55:14) - Recommendations for quality advice and knowledge in dating, sex, and relationships (56:30) - Recommendations for guys wanting to improve this aspect of their lives - quality satisfaction (57:56) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time
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