Episodes
In this episode Suzanne Venker gives advice on: - Suzanne's journey and background (05:00) - What is feminism? (09:13) - Differences between men and women since the feminist movement (11:51) - The widespread phenomenon of feminism (16:30) - The affect on men as a result of the feminism cultural shift (18:00) - Different types of feminism and labels (21:43) - What women want from relationships today (25:17) - If men are happier because feminism has made them less accountable, are they willing...
Published 04/17/17
In this episode Michael J. Domitrz gives advice on: - What is sexual assault? The difference between consent and arrogance (06:42) - How to view sexual contact (07:59) - What is The DATE SAFE Project? (08:56) - The importance of discussing sexual assault in these current times (14:17) - Drinking and not being of sound mind: normalizing sexual assault (17:03) - The cultural "norms" and pressures regarding sexual assault (31:13) - A worldwide perspective on sex education (35:00) - Michael's...
Published 04/17/17
In this episode Jenelle Marie Pierce gives advice on: - Jenelle's background and The STD Project: from inception to now (04:04) - How Jenelle contracted her STI as a teen (08:24) - How Jenelle manages her relationships, sex life, and life in general with an STI (10:28) - The difference between an STD and an STI (15:26) - The most common STIs (18:24) - Pubic lice: shaving and treatment (23:05) - More common STIs (25:50) - The scope of risks in transmitting an STI (e.g. blood transmission, skin...
Published 12/10/16
In this episode Michaela Chung gives advice on: - How Michaela became interested in the topics of introversion, dating, and socializing (07:55) - Michaela's current relationship and social lifestyle (09:22) - What is extroversion and introversion? (11:00) - Emotional versus logical conversations (14:45) - Understanding the Myers Briggs personality test (16:35) - Using the Myers Briggs test to accurately self-identify? (21:00) - Evolving from introversion to extroversion (21:40) - Common...
Published 10/15/16
In this episode Cindy Meston gives advice on: - How Cindy developed an interest in the various topics covering human sexuality (05:10) - The affects of testosterone on women's sexual physiology and behavior (07:27) - Behavioral changes based on different levels of hormones in women (e.g. testosterone, oxytocin) (14:00) - The differences in sexual arousal response between men and women (15:30) - How nicotine affects sexual arousal and contributes to erectile dysfunction (18:35) - Understanding...
Published 09/30/16
In this episode Beckster gives advice on: - Beckster's interest and start in the business: learning the game (07:50) - Overview of Beckster's company and website Becksterlifestyle.com (15:07) - Beckster's coaching infield background (15:55) - The variety in Beckster's dating lifestyle (17:03) - Beckster reflects on his polyamorous relationship (20:45) - The kinds of things that have changed over time in the way Beckster views pickup: developing your "super natural game", merging the best of...
Published 09/24/16
In this episode David M. Buss gives advice on: - How David became interested in this topic and area (04:25) - David's current view of the whole area of mating, sexual strategies, etc. Is the view from a combination of the evolutionary / psychology aspect or is there a different view considering all of David's work? (07:15) - An explanation of EPC - Extra Pair Copulation (12:00) - David's current relationship and social lifestyle, and his personal perspective (12:55) - Common misunderstandings...
Published 09/16/16
In this episode Rachel Hills gives advice on: - What triggered your interest in this topic and your book The Sex Myth? How it got started and how it developed? (03:59) - The kind of research that was involved in writing the book (05:45) - How Rachel reached out to the people that were interviewed for the book (06:57) - Rachel's current lifestyle in terms of relationships and social life (09:00) - Why do we have sex? (10:20) - Interview examples of some of the influences of sexual behavior...
Published 09/03/16
In this episode Angel Donovan gives advice on: - How do you date a girl who is not over her ex? (01:40) - Understanding women and why they do the things they do (04:42) - Creating a situation during the dating phase that you actually wanted to avoid (10:18) - The importance of giving a woman a new emotional experience (17:00) - How your dating experience affects your behavior in the early stages of dating a woman (21:21) - The "neediness" of clinging to a past relationship and the ability to...
Published 06/25/16
In this episode Michaela Boehm gives advice on: - Michaela's background and how she created the unique workshops she offers (05:41) - Michaela's current lifestyle, home, relationship, career, etc. (12:51) - Explanation of male and female polarity, and how it works (17:30) - What people look for regarding polarity and the give and take of it between people (22:50) - Getting back to your natural sexual inclination to better understand polarity (28:10) - Changes in the modern world that are...
Published 06/04/16
In this episode Jon Birger gives advice on: - Jon's background into the demographics of the dating market (04:25) - The basic thesis / hypothesis of Jon's book (05:57) - The ratio of men to women in big cities depending on the attractiveness of the job market (08:35) - More women than men are graduating from college: an expanding trend (10:04) - Changes in the current college environment regarding dating and relationships (11:43) - Hookup culture and related trends in the college environment...
Published 05/20/16
In this episode Johnny Soporno gives advice on: - Johnny's background and social lifestyle (07:05) - Johnny's open relationship, and explanation of the relationship structure (10:05) - Open communication in a polyamorous relationship (16:30) - Breaking down the wall of sexual exclusivity (19:25) - The ability to grow from external relationships: addressing the primary, secondary, and tertiary (28:55) - The unspoken truth that women do not trust each other (35:55) - The mis-programming of...
Published 05/13/16
In this episode Tripp gives advice on: - Tripp's background and lifestyle (05:28) - Why Tripp became a dating coach (09:50) - When to kiss a girl and making the first move (15:28) - Tips on how to go for the kiss and recognizing her signs (21:21) - The anxiety of kiss rejection and what a girl will do (27:08) - How to handle rejection after going for the kiss too early (30:45) - Is it possible to encourage girls to kiss you? (32:25) - Different kinds of kisses, techniques, or approaches...
Published 04/29/16
In this episode Geoffrey Miller gives advice on: - The primary goal for writing "Mate: Become the Man Women Want" (09:12) - Being honest with women, yourself, and others (10:26) - Navigating difficult situations regarding honesty (e.g. multiple relationships) (15:05) - What guys should not do when courting a woman and keeping it honest (16:30) - Honesty with yourself: the traits you have to offer to women, your sexual goals, priorities, ethics, and mating strategies (19:30) - Practical...
Published 04/23/16
In this episode Angel Donovan gives advice on: - Addressing dating information overload, keeping it simple, finding value in it, and taking action (01:20) - Insecurities about your height and dating girls that are taller than you (10:10) - Facing conversation anxiety when talking to a girl and learning how to "click" (18:25) - Improving your identity and style (20:48) - Your parents dating advice and the generation gap (22:39) - Extend your social conversation and popularity beyond just...
Published 04/16/16
In this episode Andrew Ferebee gives advice on: - How Knowledge For Men came about and it related to Andrew's dating life (05:12) - Andrew's background, life, and dating lifestyle (9:04) - Andrew's take on, "You are not a strong, confident man. You are a boy inside an adult body." (11:50) - Having your purpose as a man, and drop your neediness and jealously (14:25) - Why a good social life is important to your mindset (23:00) - What drives the impact of a good social life (24:11) - Andrew's...
Published 04/02/16
In this episode John Baku gives advice on: - John's overview of FetLife (08:40) - Why John introduced FetLife to the world (10:52) - How FetLife has evolved and where it is today (19:23) - The kink community structure, and why people are interested in it (20:35) - Is FetLife based on personality and interests? (29:54) - Changing fetishes over time (32:00) - Discussing different types of fetishes (32:55) - The journey of sexual exploration and the FetLife lifestyle (37:52) - Approaching kink...
Published 01/18/16
In this episode Jessica J gives advice on: - Jessica's background, including the pornographic industry (05:06) - Jessica having the most popular OkCupid profile in L.A. (06:16) - The difference between Jessica and other coaches in the dating, sex, and relationships arena (09:23) - The biggest myth in dating, sex, and relationships (11:20) - The importance for a man to be a leader or a decision maker with women (13:35) - Typical issues men have regarding leading or decision making (17:53) -...
Published 11/20/15
In this episode Kelly Bryson gives advice on: - Kelly's views of the relationship area that may differ from other relationship writers (04:25) - Kelly's relationships and how they function (10:24) - Whether Kelly feels he is in a particular relationship category (13:50) - New Culture (free love): love free of fear, possessiveness, control, manipulation (14:30) - The establishment of social and cultural values / principles in communities and whether this is viewed negatively (15:45) - The...
Published 11/18/15
In this episode Leil Lowndes gives advice on: - Leil's unique approach to communication regarding dating, sex, and relationships (05:24) - Significant past experiences that guided Leil to where she is today (07:47) - Big mistakes in communication that men make with women (09:30) - Signals men can look for from women in order to give them more courage to take action romantically (10:33) - Regarding undercover sex signals, do women know what they're doing all the time? (13:40) - Drawing...
Published 11/13/15
In this episode Steve Mayeda (El Topo) gives advice on: - Steve's background, lifestyle, and reflecting on the pickup artist industry in the past (04:06) - How Steve came up with the nickname "El Topo" (18:16) - What it means to be the best version of yourself (21:15) - Where people get stuck in becoming the best version of themselves (26:33) - Steve's perspective on defining love (34:19) - The scientific principles that are magnified during sex (40:24) - Having purpose towards being a better...
Published 11/12/15
In this episode Hayley Quinn gives advice on: - Hayley's background (06:00) - Hayley's beginnings: from the pickup artist industry to the dating, sex, and relationship arena (07:22) - Is there an egotistical vibe in the pickup artist industry? (09:07) - Signs of ego issues that have negative consequences (11:02) - Hayley's multiple perspectives based on her varied background (13:56) - Uncomplicating all of the dating / pickup artist advice and information available to us (15:02) - The need...
Published 11/11/15
In this episode John Gray gives advice on: - John's career and background in the relationship area, as well as perspectives in other areas over the years (05:16) - Correctly interpreting women and understanding their biological emotional reactions (11:37) - When women test men: maintaining your masculine energy (cool, calm, collected) (22:18) - If you want relationships to work, don't expect women to be as accountable as men (37:45) - Women make up for their lack of accountability by being...
Published 11/10/15
In this episode Ian Kerner gives advice on: - Ian's background and his journey to writing the book "She Comes First" (03:45) - Pharmaceutical interventions for premature ejaculation (09:20) - Getting to the root cause of premature ejaculation (10:40) - Balancing porn and masturbation: the positive and negative aspects (12:56) - A guideline as to what is healthy versus unhealthy regarding porn and masturbation (17:09) - Getting to the next level of understanding sexuality and achieving mutual...
Published 11/09/15