Episodes
In this episode Suzanne Venker gives advice on:
- Suzanne's journey and background (05:00)
- What is feminism? (09:13)
- Differences between men and women since the feminist movement (11:51)
- The widespread phenomenon of feminism (16:30)
- The affect on men as a result of the feminism cultural shift (18:00)
- Different types of feminism and labels (21:43)
- What women want from relationships today (25:17)
- If men are happier because feminism has made them less accountable, are they willing...
Published 04/17/17
In this episode Michael J. Domitrz gives advice on:
- What is sexual assault? The difference between consent and arrogance (06:42)
- How to view sexual contact (07:59)
- What is The DATE SAFE Project? (08:56)
- The importance of discussing sexual assault in these current times (14:17)
- Drinking and not being of sound mind: normalizing sexual assault (17:03)
- The cultural "norms" and pressures regarding sexual assault (31:13)
- A worldwide perspective on sex education (35:00)
- Michael's...
Published 04/17/17
In this episode Jenelle Marie Pierce gives advice on:
- Jenelle's background and The STD Project: from inception to now (04:04)
- How Jenelle contracted her STI as a teen (08:24)
- How Jenelle manages her relationships, sex life, and life in general with an STI (10:28)
- The difference between an STD and an STI (15:26)
- The most common STIs (18:24)
- Pubic lice: shaving and treatment (23:05)
- More common STIs (25:50)
- The scope of risks in transmitting an STI (e.g. blood transmission, skin...
Published 12/10/16
In this episode Michaela Chung gives advice on:
- How Michaela became interested in the topics of introversion, dating, and socializing (07:55)
- Michaela's current relationship and social lifestyle (09:22)
- What is extroversion and introversion? (11:00)
- Emotional versus logical conversations (14:45)
- Understanding the Myers Briggs personality test (16:35)
- Using the Myers Briggs test to accurately self-identify? (21:00)
- Evolving from introversion to extroversion (21:40)
- Common...
Published 10/15/16
In this episode Cindy Meston gives advice on:
- How Cindy developed an interest in the various topics covering human sexuality (05:10)
- The affects of testosterone on women's sexual physiology and behavior (07:27)
- Behavioral changes based on different levels of hormones in women (e.g. testosterone, oxytocin) (14:00)
- The differences in sexual arousal response between men and women (15:30)
- How nicotine affects sexual arousal and contributes to erectile dysfunction (18:35)
- Understanding...
Published 09/30/16
In this episode Beckster gives advice on:
- Beckster's interest and start in the business: learning the game (07:50)
- Overview of Beckster's company and website Becksterlifestyle.com (15:07)
- Beckster's coaching infield background (15:55)
- The variety in Beckster's dating lifestyle (17:03)
- Beckster reflects on his polyamorous relationship (20:45)
- The kinds of things that have changed over time in the way Beckster views pickup: developing your "super natural game", merging the best of...
Published 09/24/16
In this episode David M. Buss gives advice on:
- How David became interested in this topic and area (04:25)
- David's current view of the whole area of mating, sexual strategies, etc. Is the view from a combination of the evolutionary / psychology aspect or is there a different view considering all of David's work? (07:15)
- An explanation of EPC - Extra Pair Copulation (12:00)
- David's current relationship and social lifestyle, and his personal perspective (12:55)
- Common misunderstandings...
Published 09/16/16
In this episode Rachel Hills gives advice on:
- What triggered your interest in this topic and your book The Sex Myth? How it got started and how it developed? (03:59)
- The kind of research that was involved in writing the book (05:45)
- How Rachel reached out to the people that were interviewed for the book (06:57)
- Rachel's current lifestyle in terms of relationships and social life (09:00)
- Why do we have sex? (10:20)
- Interview examples of some of the influences of sexual behavior...
Published 09/03/16
In this episode Angel Donovan gives advice on:
- How do you date a girl who is not over her ex? (01:40)
- Understanding women and why they do the things they do (04:42)
- Creating a situation during the dating phase that you actually wanted to avoid (10:18)
- The importance of giving a woman a new emotional experience (17:00)
- How your dating experience affects your behavior in the early stages of dating a woman (21:21)
- The "neediness" of clinging to a past relationship and the ability to...
Published 06/25/16
In this episode Michaela Boehm gives advice on:
- Michaela's background and how she created the unique workshops she offers (05:41)
- Michaela's current lifestyle, home, relationship, career, etc. (12:51)
- Explanation of male and female polarity, and how it works (17:30)
- What people look for regarding polarity and the give and take of it between people (22:50)
- Getting back to your natural sexual inclination to better understand polarity (28:10)
- Changes in the modern world that are...
Published 06/04/16
In this episode Jon Birger gives advice on:
- Jon's background into the demographics of the dating market (04:25)
- The basic thesis / hypothesis of Jon's book (05:57)
- The ratio of men to women in big cities depending on the attractiveness of the job market (08:35)
- More women than men are graduating from college: an expanding trend (10:04)
- Changes in the current college environment regarding dating and relationships (11:43)
- Hookup culture and related trends in the college environment...
Published 05/20/16
In this episode Johnny Soporno gives advice on:
- Johnny's background and social lifestyle (07:05)
- Johnny's open relationship, and explanation of the relationship structure (10:05)
- Open communication in a polyamorous relationship (16:30)
- Breaking down the wall of sexual exclusivity (19:25)
- The ability to grow from external relationships: addressing the primary, secondary, and tertiary (28:55)
- The unspoken truth that women do not trust each other (35:55)
- The mis-programming of...
Published 05/13/16
In this episode Tripp gives advice on:
- Tripp's background and lifestyle (05:28)
- Why Tripp became a dating coach (09:50)
- When to kiss a girl and making the first move (15:28)
- Tips on how to go for the kiss and recognizing her signs (21:21)
- The anxiety of kiss rejection and what a girl will do (27:08)
- How to handle rejection after going for the kiss too early (30:45)
- Is it possible to encourage girls to kiss you? (32:25)
- Different kinds of kisses, techniques, or approaches...
Published 04/29/16
In this episode Geoffrey Miller gives advice on:
- The primary goal for writing "Mate: Become the Man Women Want" (09:12)
- Being honest with women, yourself, and others (10:26)
- Navigating difficult situations regarding honesty (e.g. multiple relationships) (15:05)
- What guys should not do when courting a woman and keeping it honest (16:30)
- Honesty with yourself: the traits you have to offer to women, your sexual goals, priorities, ethics, and mating strategies (19:30)
- Practical...
Published 04/23/16
In this episode Angel Donovan gives advice on:
- Addressing dating information overload, keeping it simple, finding value in it, and taking action (01:20)
- Insecurities about your height and dating girls that are taller than you (10:10)
- Facing conversation anxiety when talking to a girl and learning how to "click" (18:25)
- Improving your identity and style (20:48)
- Your parents dating advice and the generation gap (22:39)
- Extend your social conversation and popularity beyond just...
Published 04/16/16
In this episode Andrew Ferebee gives advice on:
- How Knowledge For Men came about and it related to Andrew's dating life (05:12)
- Andrew's background, life, and dating lifestyle (9:04)
- Andrew's take on, "You are not a strong, confident man. You are a boy inside an adult body." (11:50)
- Having your purpose as a man, and drop your neediness and jealously (14:25)
- Why a good social life is important to your mindset (23:00)
- What drives the impact of a good social life (24:11)
- Andrew's...
Published 04/02/16
In this episode John Baku gives advice on:
- John's overview of FetLife (08:40)
- Why John introduced FetLife to the world (10:52)
- How FetLife has evolved and where it is today (19:23)
- The kink community structure, and why people are interested in it (20:35)
- Is FetLife based on personality and interests? (29:54)
- Changing fetishes over time (32:00)
- Discussing different types of fetishes (32:55)
- The journey of sexual exploration and the FetLife lifestyle (37:52)
- Approaching kink...
Published 01/18/16
In this episode Jessica J gives advice on:
- Jessica's background, including the pornographic industry (05:06)
- Jessica having the most popular OkCupid profile in L.A. (06:16)
- The difference between Jessica and other coaches in the dating, sex, and relationships arena (09:23)
- The biggest myth in dating, sex, and relationships (11:20)
- The importance for a man to be a leader or a decision maker with women (13:35)
- Typical issues men have regarding leading or decision making (17:53)
-...
Published 11/20/15
In this episode Kelly Bryson gives advice on:
- Kelly's views of the relationship area that may differ from other relationship writers (04:25)
- Kelly's relationships and how they function (10:24)
- Whether Kelly feels he is in a particular relationship category (13:50)
- New Culture (free love): love free of fear, possessiveness, control, manipulation (14:30)
- The establishment of social and cultural values / principles in communities and whether this is viewed negatively (15:45)
- The...
Published 11/18/15
In this episode Leil Lowndes gives advice on:
- Leil's unique approach to communication regarding dating, sex, and relationships (05:24)
- Significant past experiences that guided Leil to where she is today (07:47)
- Big mistakes in communication that men make with women (09:30)
- Signals men can look for from women in order to give them more courage to take action romantically (10:33)
- Regarding undercover sex signals, do women know what they're doing all the time? (13:40)
- Drawing...
Published 11/13/15
In this episode Steve Mayeda (El Topo) gives advice on:
- Steve's background, lifestyle, and reflecting on the pickup artist industry in the past (04:06)
- How Steve came up with the nickname "El Topo" (18:16)
- What it means to be the best version of yourself (21:15)
- Where people get stuck in becoming the best version of themselves (26:33)
- Steve's perspective on defining love (34:19)
- The scientific principles that are magnified during sex (40:24)
- Having purpose towards being a better...
Published 11/12/15
In this episode Hayley Quinn gives advice on:
- Hayley's background (06:00)
- Hayley's beginnings: from the pickup artist industry to the dating, sex, and relationship arena (07:22)
- Is there an egotistical vibe in the pickup artist industry? (09:07)
- Signs of ego issues that have negative consequences (11:02)
- Hayley's multiple perspectives based on her varied background (13:56)
- Uncomplicating all of the dating / pickup artist advice and information available to us (15:02)
- The need...
Published 11/11/15
In this episode John Gray gives advice on:
- John's career and background in the relationship area, as well as perspectives in other areas over the years (05:16)
- Correctly interpreting women and understanding their biological emotional reactions (11:37)
- When women test men: maintaining your masculine energy (cool, calm, collected) (22:18)
- If you want relationships to work, don't expect women to be as accountable as men (37:45)
- Women make up for their lack of accountability by being...
Published 11/10/15
In this episode Ian Kerner gives advice on:
- Ian's background and his journey to writing the book "She Comes First" (03:45)
- Pharmaceutical interventions for premature ejaculation (09:20)
- Getting to the root cause of premature ejaculation (10:40)
- Balancing porn and masturbation: the positive and negative aspects (12:56)
- A guideline as to what is healthy versus unhealthy regarding porn and masturbation (17:09)
- Getting to the next level of understanding sexuality and achieving mutual...
Published 11/09/15