In this episode Jessica J gives advice on: - Jessica's background, including the pornographic industry (05:06) - Jessica having the most popular OkCupid profile in L.A. (06:16) - The difference between Jessica and other coaches in the dating, sex, and relationships arena (09:23) - The biggest myth in dating, sex, and relationships (11:20) - The importance for a man to be a leader or a decision maker with women (13:35) - Typical issues men have regarding leading or decision making (17:53) - The connection between being selfish, knowing what you want, and what you are looking for (20:32) - Drawing the line between being selfish and being inconsiderate (25:26) - Practical examples of leading and decision making when approaching or meeting women (28:00) - How selfishness can work to your advantage when on a date (32:58) - How to be selfish when wanting to take a woman home (35:55) - Should men be more selfish in sex? (42:48) - Should there be selfishness in relationships? (45:50) - Cultivating and making selfishness a habit and part of your life (49:40) - Advice Jessica offers that is often ignored (51:39) - Objections to Jessica's coaching approach to dating, sex, and relationships (54:15) - Recommendations for high quality advice in this area (55:53) - Top three recommendations for men to improve in dating, sex, and relationships as fast as possible (57:05) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time