In this episode John Gray gives advice on: - John's career and background in the relationship area, as well as perspectives in other areas over the years (05:16) - Correctly interpreting women and understanding their biological emotional reactions (11:37) - When women test men: maintaining your masculine energy (cool, calm, collected) (22:18) - If you want relationships to work, don't expect women to be as accountable as men (37:45) - Women make up for their lack of accountability by being more responsible than men (41:10) - The primal fears of men and women (43:38) - Men must have direction first in doing what makes them happy, and then the partner they are going to share it with who will appreciate what they do (48:22) - The No. 1 inhibitor of oxytocin production in a woman is the feeling of not having enough time (1:00:20) - The link between living in a more stressful society and how a woman will lose interest in sex compared to a man (1:01:32) - Men do not want to get into long-term commitments as much as they used to: overstimulation (a form of ADHD - Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) (1:13:23) - What does ADHD mean regarding dating, sex, and relationships? (1:17:11) - How to increase your testosterone and decrease estrogen (1:21:05) - The best ways to connect with John to learn more about him and his work (1:26:51) - Recommendations for high quality advice in this area (1:27:27) - Top recommendations for guys wanting to improve in dating, sex, and relationships (1:28:10) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time