In this episode Diana Richardson gives advice on: - Quote from one of Diana’s books: "Fifty years of sex is equal to fifteen minutes of orgasm." Is that true? (06:12) - Are men and women too focused and goal-oriented on the brief orgasmic experience? (07:10) - The current drive towards goal-oriented sex (09:38) - Transitioning from being goal- or technique-oriented in sex to other approaches (12:28) - Breaking down the 'high' or addiction to orgasm in order to experience sex on a deeper level...

In this episode Brad Blanton gives advice on: - Getting to know Brad's dating, sex, relationship, and lifestyle background (04:22) - Different concepts of lying Brad has observed (12:43) - The most common objectives people create against this approach (15:53) - How long Brad has been practicing: radical honesty workshops, clinical psychologist (18:50) - The moment Brad decided to apply radical honesty to his life (19:12) - Non-violent versus violent communication: the difference between...

In this episode Elisabeth Sheff gives advice on: - Elisabeth's perspective on her academic work of polyamorous families (07:10) - Configurations of a polyamorous family (10:03) - How married couples get into polyamory, and open relationships (13:58) - Crossover between sexual communities (e.g. BDSM, polyamory, swinging, etc.) (16:05) - The organization and complexity of maintaining multiple relationships (20:15) - What is more suitable for you: from monogamy to deciding to be polyamorous...

In this episode John Marshall Townsend gives advice on: - What triggered John's interest in the differences in sexual psychology (06:03) - John's perspective of looking at sexual psychology differences in men and women from a politically correct view (10:10) - The study of casual sex at Syracuse University (11:15) - Men do better with women when achieving higher status (15:03) - The basis and methods behind John's research (18:28) - An overview of the differences in sexual orientation...

In this episode Cooper S. Beckett gives advice on: - Cooper's background and how he became involved in swinging (05:15) - Cooper's highlighted swinging experiences (09:41) - The importance of physical confidence (17:00) - The negative experiences in swinging: compatibility versus incompatibility (23:25) - Swinging as a "foreign" lifestyle without positive navigation (28:45) - The concept of impermanence in relationships and seeing the value of a relationship regardless of its longevity...

In this episode Lawrence Lanoff gives advice on: - Lawrence's background and how it has led him to where he is today (07:45) - Sex and sexuality: how the channels of sex and dopamine go hand-in-hand (24:22) - Lawrence's approach to sexuality, sex, and having great sex (25:50) - Accessing a state of relaxed sexuality (34:00) - Great sex and the implications of not being in touch with yourself during sex (36:18) - Is the 'average' experience of sex really mediocre? (39:51) - Being aware from...

In this episode Barry Komisaruk gives advice on: - Barry's background and exploration of orgasms in relation to the brain (06:08) - Why functional MRI (fMRI) is considered the best way to track brain activity (08:57) - Barry's study of orgasms and reproductive behavior, and career highlights (11:05) - Explanation of an orgasm as something that continues to not be fully understood, for both sexes (17:24) - Is there research about the quality / intensity of orgasms based on various factors?...

In this episode Shaunti Feldhahn gives advice on: - How Shaunti's path changed from the economics and financial world into the relationship world: discovering the real thoughts of men (06:33) - Shaunti's background and perspective in the relationship arena compared to other writers (10:46) - Shaunti's approach and using surveys to determine communication statistics between men and women, and applying it to relationships (12:20) - Developing surveys compared to other existing information...

In this episode Ross Jeffries gives advice on: - Ross' background and his first book release (05:15) - Changes over the years in the way Ross delivers his information and advice (07:50) - Ross' shift to 'healing' men: the journey of the wounded healer and helping men find healthier ways to be attractive to women (09:37) - Men's lack of finding community and achieving satisfaction (11:50) - How Ross views himself as a seducer and teacher, and how to enjoy genuine connection with amazing women...

In this episode JAIYA gives advice on: - Jaiya's background and relationship lifestyle (02:57) - The experiences in Jaiya's life that started her sexuality journey - healer, heal thyself (03:52) - Jaiya's approach to teaching others as a somatic sexologist (the combining of somatics and sexology - as well as Tantra, Taoism, shamanism, yoga, and meditation - in order to experience greater awareness through the body) (07:40) - Setting goals on the journey of sexuality: the sexual blueprint and...

In this episode The Swinging MILF gives advice on: - Swinging MILF's background, current relationship lifestyle, and cam modelling (07:26) - Gateway sexual experiences and milestones Swinging MILF has had in her lifestyle journey (09:50) - How things have changed for Swinging MILF since she started swinging (18:55) - Releasing sexual barriers through the openness of the swinging community (20:55) - Meeting other swingers and the initial conservations (23:20) - Swinging MILF's best swinging...

In this episode James Swanwick gives advice on: - James' background (03:18) - James' current social and dating relationships, and a perspective on marriage (04:46) - How socializing, networking, and building a social lifestyle in LA has impacted James' dating lifestyle (13:26) - How James began interviewing celebrities and high status people (16:05) - Fundamental people skills and how James has nurtured his high status relationships: the difference between taking an interest in a person and...

In this episode Duana Welch gives advice on: - What love and commitment could mean to people? (03:46) - Duana's background and relationship lifestyle (07:25) - Why Duana is passionate about her topic, why it's important today, and why she wrote her book (08:47) - What gets in our way of looking for love and commitment? (09:56) - Marriage as a more stable lifestyle and the behavioral differences between cohabiting and marriage (16:08) - Dependency: an explanation of the co-dependency...

In this episode Maryanne Fisher gives advice on: - How Maryanne became involved in studying female intrasexual competition: how women compete for each other for men, or to retain the men they have (02:47) - Synchronizing menstrual cycles when women are around each other (e.g., living together, working together) and its indirect course into social dominance (05:00) - The types of things women compete for: access to good men or retaining the men they have (07:00) - Variations in the definition...

In this episode Franklin Veaux gives advice on: - Franklin and Eve's background and polyamory lifestyle (02:28) - Maintaining long distance relationships in polyamory (05:29) - Managing communication between multiple partners in polyamorous relationships (08:00) - How Franklin and Eve started writing about polyamory and their book: More Than Two: A practical guide to ethical polyamory (see show notes below) (10:17) - Franklin and Eve's definition of a healthy relationship (14:53) -...

In this episode Susan A. Walsh gives advice on: - Susan's background and how she started her blog (03:17) - Top concerns from men and women related to hooking up, including its definition (09:45) - Why men in college worry about being a virgin and the pressure to sleep with women, including societal pressures and changes that affect their sexual behavior (19:15) - Top concerns for women in college when it comes to having sex, and what they are being told by men to get them to hook up...

In this episode Lee Harrington gives advice on: - Lee's is current relationship and where he's at in his own life regarding dating, sex, and relationships (03:35) - What sparked Lee's interest in BDSM and kink, and his introduction into it (04:23) - An overview of BDSM and kink, and their variety of preferences (06:59) - BDSM and kink becoming more mainstream and its relevance to a mainstream audience, as well as the importance of communication and 'consent' (10:10) - Navigating the...

In this episode David Tian (Asian Rake) gives advice on: - [At the time of this podcast recording] David is currently in London to attend the Tony Robbins seminar: Unleash The Power Within (02:40) - The biggest problem guys have when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships is about "change" (03:46) - Defining yourself in terms of who you are and how it affects your processes (10:28) - Taking action and responsibility in your life (14:03) - Fractionation: taking someone out of state and...

In this episode Cunning Minx gives advice on: - Minx' background and dating lifestyle (03:50) - Dealing with relationship drama in polyamory and developing a level of self-awareness (10:08) - How a man can tell if it's his emotions that are generating a woman's dramatic response versus hers (16:47) - Minx discusses her user manual called: RTFM (Read The F*****g Manual) and how men can create the same in order to learn more about themselves, and make that more concrete (17:38) - Introducing...

In this episode Amy Andersen gives advice on: - Amy's background, her beginnings in Silicon Valley, and discovering her date matchmaking niche (03:53) - Changes that have taken place in the dating environment over time (06:20) - How matchmaking works and the difference between matchmaking and using online dating apps (07:50) - The demographics of Amy's matchmaking clients (11:22) - The social resource challenges of high net-worth men in dating (13:12) - Preliminary stages of the matchmaking...

In this episode Scot McKay gives advice on: - The type of relationship Scot is currently involved in: marriage and family life (02:40) - Seeing the value in building yourself and ideas to get guys motivated to see that long-term value (08:30) - How to make relationships work over the long term and the biggest challenges (20:00) - What does leadership look like on a daily basis in a relationship? (25:34) - Taking responsibility for your own happiness instead of putting that responsibility on...

In this episode Angel Donovan gives advice on: - It's a good idea to look at your libido and have your testosterone levels checked to see if they are low. Low testosterone levels may be a specific issue related to a guy's inner game, confidence, and being masculine and sexual in general. (03:24) - - It's actually okay not to be attracted to 90% of women. It could depend on the types of women located in a particular area, city, or region. In addition, men need to own their sexual expression...

In this episode Swinggcat gives advice on: - Swinggcat has been a central figure in the game since it was introduced. He talks about how it affected his life when the book "The Game" was published (04:45) - Swinggcat's background and his introduction into the game (05:34) - When and how Swinggcat's own style emerged (16:28) - How conventional courtship differs from how a lot of people have chosen to court someone in our current time (20:52) - A discussion on instilling social communication...

In this episode Toni gives advice on: - What is orgasmic meditation? (05:07) - How Toni views orgasmic meditation (OM, OMing) compared to normal sexual activities in terms of having to let go of your perceived mindset (08:13) - What is an OM circle? (12:22) - Toni's first steps and entrance into OM (14:55) - What guys can get out of the OMing practice (25:10) - Whether or not the experience of OMing depends on the dynamics of the couple involved, or on what's going on in your personal life,...

In this episode Dave Pounder gives advice on: - A discussion of Dave's book and documentary (04:05) - Dave's personal dating background (05:13) - Evolutionary Psychology as a powerful means of viewing male and female interactions, why people behave the way they do, and conspicuous consumption to increase mating opportunities (06:45) - Taking a step back to look at Dave's lifestyle and views on dating and relationships (26:40) - A background on the swinging environment: striking a balance...