In this episode Diana Richardson gives advice on: - Quote from one of Diana’s books: "Fifty years of sex is equal to fifteen minutes of orgasm." Is that true? (06:12) - Are men and women too focused and goal-oriented on the brief orgasmic experience? (07:10) - The current drive towards goal-oriented sex (09:38) - Transitioning from being goal- or technique-oriented in sex to other approaches (12:28) - Breaking down the 'high' or addiction to orgasm in order to experience sex on a deeper level (20:10) - Orgasm preferences and patterns that may negatively affect your sexual experiences (23:20) - Young people have a better ability of letting go of societal orgasmic conditioning (25:46) - Bypassing the orgasm in Tantra to contain energy and being into sex to the point of having an orgasmic experience, which is very different to an orgasm (27:57) - The relevance of kegel exercises for men (29:35) - Understanding the orgasmic experience (31:35) - Practical steps towards practicing Tantra, and the male positive pole (37:17) - Becoming more conscious of our bodies - "Presence and awareness are more important than positions" (42:35) - The foundation of Diana's Tantra (45:15) - Diana's Tantra retreats and what's involved (47:38) - Explaining the 'slow sex' and 'love keys' concepts (48:36) - Approaching a woman about the idea of opening up to sexual exploration as apposed to conventional sex (52:35) - Evolving over time once people start their Tantra journey (54:20) - The sexual dimension behind fights and conflicts: sexual misunderstanding (55:10) - A woman's sexual energy is raised through her breast, not her clitoris (55:45) - Men have a tendency to return to Tantra rather than women due to the value they find in making love in another way (59:37) - A woman may feel a man is not interested, or loves her, when he does not orgasm (1:01:20) - The difference between a horny vagina and one that welcomes you (1:02:40) - The best ways GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time