In this episode James Swanwick gives advice on: - James' background (03:18) - James' current social and dating relationships, and a perspective on marriage (04:46) - How socializing, networking, and building a social lifestyle in LA has impacted James' dating lifestyle (13:26) - How James began interviewing celebrities and high status people (16:05) - Fundamental people skills and how James has nurtured his high status relationships: the difference between taking an interest in a person and taking a genuine interest in a person (18:05) - The Myers Briggs test: are you an introvert or extrovert? Learning to become an extrovert (20:41) - What James has learned from relating with celebrities (22:55) - The big takeaways of developing social / people skills (28:28) - James’ 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge: sharing his story of how to connect to people (34:00) - Developing intimacy with others by taking risks: ask better questions (35:30) - The importance of a good relationship between a mentor and mentee: offering and adding value (40:10) - Tips for selecting a mentor: seeking wisdom (48:06) - Best way to connect with James and learn more about his work (49:55) - Recommendations for high quality advice in the social and people skills area (50:45) - Top three recommendations to improve this aspect of your life as soon as possible (51:4GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time