In this episode Shaunti Feldhahn gives advice on: - How Shaunti's path changed from the economics and financial world into the relationship world: discovering the real thoughts of men (06:33) - Shaunti's background and perspective in the relationship arena compared to other writers (10:46) - Shaunti's approach and using surveys to determine communication statistics between men and women, and applying it to relationships (12:20) - Developing surveys compared to other existing information (17:20) - Survey-based data versus physiological-based data (19:30) - The biggest concerns from women regarding relationships, and focusing on 'presence' and listening, while filtering out the problem (22:45) - How easy is it for women to not feel loved? What a woman needs to know in a relationship (36:00) - What your wife or girlfriend doesn't know about you, and you don't know about you either (39:15) - Shaunti's highlights regarding her work in marriage, and addressing the divorce rate (46:55) - How to connect with Shaunti to learn more about her and her work (51:50) - Recommendations for high quality advice (52:09) - Top recommendation for guys starting from scratch in relationships (52:09) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time