In this episode JAIYA gives advice on: - Jaiya's background and relationship lifestyle (02:57) - The experiences in Jaiya's life that started her sexuality journey - healer, heal thyself (03:52) - Jaiya's approach to teaching others as a somatic sexologist (the combining of somatics and sexology - as well as Tantra, Taoism, shamanism, yoga, and meditation - in order to experience greater awareness through the body) (07:40) - Setting goals on the journey of sexuality: the sexual blueprint and its five erotic types (09:46) - Discovering your erotic type blueprint and possibly transitioning to a type that may be better for you (17:53) - Do some men chase women that are not the sexual blueprint type for them? (25:43) - Bio-energetics: 1) what is happening on the cellular level, and 2) how sensitive we are energetically. More importantly, the energetics we put out into the world - our polarity (the masculine and feminine dynamic) (27:58) - Jaiya's approach and evolvement: the truth of what's happening in the body (30:39) - Disagreeing with a lot of the research (because it's not from a hands-on felt experience) of what is truly happening in the body in arousal and/or orgasmic states (32:44) - The benefits of exploring and expanding your sexuality (34:55) - Are men not enjoying sex because they have a disconnection from it, a disconnection from awareness? (37:18) - Partners that are different sexual types who come together to expand their sexuality (39:05) - Exercises and steps to becoming self-aware when nervous about your sexuality: changing your mindset (42:40) - How working on your sex life makes a beneficial impact in other areas of your life (46:50) - The difference between resistance and sexual boundaries (48:45) - Unique approaches to female sexual pleasure (55:57) - Female ejaculation, whether it's beneficial to women, and if this should be a focus area for men (01:00:51) - Best way to connect with Jaiya GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time