In this episode Cooper S. Beckett gives advice on: - Cooper's background and how he became involved in swinging (05:15) - Cooper's highlighted swinging experiences (09:41) - The importance of physical confidence (17:00) - The negative experiences in swinging: compatibility versus incompatibility (23:25) - Swinging as a "foreign" lifestyle without positive navigation (28:45) - The concept of impermanence in relationships and seeing the value of a relationship regardless of its longevity (30:30) - The biggest differences in Cooper's life since getting into swinging (35:02) - Is there a transfer of confidence to other areas of life as a result of swinging? (38:57) - The positive pressure put on oneself to better communicate in the swinging community: the ability to quickly access and the openness to jump in (41:30) - How Cooper discovered his bisexuality, dealing with it emotionally, and bisexuality in the swinging community (43:00) - The Kinsey Scale in recognizing there are varying degrees of bisexuality without identifying with being gay, as a result of having a strong sense of self and who you are (50:26) - Interesting things Cooper has tried while in the swinging community (53:00) - Practical tips for people wanting to get into the swinging lifestyle and make the most out of the experience (55:40) - The possibility to learn from good, ethically produced porn that is often less traditional (58:50) - STI / STD safety (sexually transmitted infections / diseases): handling it in the swingset, and in general (1:07:30) - The peer pressure of introducing protection in oral and penetration sex (1:15:10) - Recommends for finding practical, quality sex education advice (1:17:05) - The best ways to connect with Cooper to learn more about him and his work (1:18:53) - Top three recommendations for guys starting out in their sexual exploration (1:20:08) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time