In this episode Lee Harrington gives advice on: - Lee's is current relationship and where he's at in his own life regarding dating, sex, and relationships (03:35) - What sparked Lee's interest in BDSM and kink, and his introduction into it (04:23) - An overview of BDSM and kink, and their variety of preferences (06:59) - BDSM and kink becoming more mainstream and its relevance to a mainstream audience, as well as the importance of communication and 'consent' (10:10) - Navigating the boundaries of the "extreme" in BDSM and kink as a way of developing and improving your relationships, even if deciding there are experiences that are not for you (15:22) - Finding ways to introduce yourself to BDSM and kink: communities, classes, private clubs, parties, etc. (16:38) - What type of people would be interested in exploring this area? (23:43) - How to introduce this area of interest to your partner (27:07) - Building trust and communication in various types of sexual experiences to improve your relationship (30:11) - Specific things in the Fifty Shades of Grey movie and books that portray the healthy and unhealthy sides of BDSM and kink (36:09) - Coming to an agreement about what you and your partner are into and fulfilling each other's desires (40:46) - Matchmaking type of websites for people interested BDSM and kink (41:46) - The importance of safety when using bondage toys and equipment (47:40) - The emotional journey during BDSM and kink types of sexual experiences: playing and dealing with your emotions (56:09) - Navigating through the BDSM community and dealing with different perceptions or approaches: the negative aspects (1:01:05) - The various styles of rope bondage, where to start, and your approach (1:07:30) - The best ways for people to contact Lee and learn more about his work (see show notes below) (1:14:51) - Recommendations for high quality advice in this area (1:14:51) GET MORE: Show Notes & Resources, Interview Transcript and Comments. HELP ME SPREAD THE WORD! Think this episode was Kick-Ass? An iTunes review would be SO appreciated! This is what helps me stand out so I can help more men like you. Click here to review the show. FEEDBACK Hit me up with your comments and guest suggestions. I read EVERYTHING. • Email: [email protected] • Get my newsletter: Click here to get my Newsletter • Got a question? Drop it in our voicemail to get it answered: 323.747.5006 MORE FREE STUFF: • Get the Fast Track Dating System • Get Monster Brain Dump from our Editorial Team on Top Advice of All Time