Episodes
After 4 long years, we're finally pregnant!
In this episode, we get you quickly caught up on our whole plan and how we were able to make it this far. Warning, this was not an easy journey but this is our story.
Also, we'll be back every other Sunday until we navigate through this nesting phase and the next episode will be dedicated to answering your question on IG via DM or through our Gmail
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In the meantime, what baby names should we consider?
Published 10/13/24
We're back and it's been waaaaay too long!
Life was definitely doing its thing and we're so excited to catch you up on the chapters you missed.
Chapter 1: Baby update and learning we will have to adopt our own child (grab a tissue)
Chapter 2: Preciosa is down to its final leg of the tour!
Chapter 3: We answer your IG questions about first heartbrakes and how to avoid Uhauling...
We missed you so much and we'll see you next week!
Don't forget to follow us @edenxjay and...
Published 07/28/24
We’re moving!!! So sorry Unfiltered Fam we’ve been gone but this is why. Our lives have felt a little upside down and hard choices had to be made but here we are, ready to dive into what happened and most importantly… WHAT’S NEXT?
No matter where we are in the world, we’re honored to take you with us. So please enjoy this catch-up episode as we unpack our decision to pack up everything and start a new adventure.
Next week we’re answering your questions from our “Let’s TALK Thursday” prompt...
Published 05/05/24
Not one, not two but there are FIVE different ways to feel imposter syndrome?? Yes, you bet we are unpacking all of them in this week's episode and giving you EIGHT different ways to fight those intrusive feelings.
Also, we are just days away from Jay's bday party and DJ debut in Boyle Heights and we hope to see you there! - TICKETS
See you next week!
XOXOXO LOVE YOU!
Published 03/11/24
We are back y'all!
Life has been lifing so thank you for giving us grace. When it rains it pours for sure but that won't stop us from being here for you. In today's episode, the first half we chat about our path to breaking the cycle of codependency and how we support having different identities. On the flip side, we share our experience with being long-distance and how we kept the flame alive while being so far apart.
Two important topics in one episode! Thank you for joining our Sunday...
Published 03/03/24
Welcome to another episode of EdenxJay unfiltered podcast! This week, we're blasting off into uncharted territory as we tackle some hard-hitting issues with our special guests, Roxy and Taylor, two LA drag kings. Get ready as we navigate the stratosphere of homophobia and discrimination while on our Preciosa Tour. Plus, we're exploring the complexities of starting a family as a queer couple. Buckle up for a Sunday sermon like no other with your hosts, Eden and Jay. It's about to get real,...
Published 02/18/24
Situationships...what are they? Why do we get into them? And how can we stop it?
On this week’s episode of EdenxJay unfiltered we are fresh off our first Tour stop for Preciosa Night and we deep Dive into the intricate web of situationships, exploring the blurred lines between and how we even get there in the first place. Get ready as we spill the tea on our personal experiences and how we got out of them. 🎙️💔
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Published 02/04/24
This is our first podcast on the road and I can't believe we pulled it off... and on time! This week's episode was a request from our Instagram and giiirrllll did we unpack our past. Listen as we dive into our Toxic recovery journey and share the lessons we learned along the way.
We officially hit the road next week for our Preciosa Night Tour so join us as we pack up for San Francisco and Texas!
Talk to you babes next Sunday!
xoxo
Published 01/28/24
We're backkkkkkk! Happy 2024 babes! We're so excited to catch you up on all our favorite moments of our NYE party, including a Preciosa asking to be our New Year's Kiss.... OMG YES she did! Listen to not only hear what happened but we also talk about open relationships for the first time in our relationship.
Buckle up buttercups and let's unpack 2024 together.
Tune in every Sunday at 8 AM pst.
See you next week!
Published 01/21/24
(Trigger Warning: DV / Suicide) for those in need please see the resources below:
publichealth.lacounty.gov
www.thetrevorproject.org
National Domestic Abuse Hotline
In this unfiltered episode, Eden and Jay bravely open up about their journey surviving their first toxic relationship. It's a raw account of the hardships they faced, which might be challenging to hear at times. Feel free to take breaks or skip ahead for your comfort.
Their resilience in surviving this challenging experience is...
Published 12/19/23
What do you want to make happen in 2024?
The girls dive into the power of manifestation and get candid about their goals for next year. Also, they answer some great questions sent by you, "Name a time when you had to trust the process", "Advice for struggling to feel accepted as a bisexual", "Fave places you traveled this year"?
Have you ever felt too old to do something risky? Eden opens up about how she missed her window to do drugs and go snowboarding... maybe you can relate.
Jay is...
Published 12/03/23
It's that time of the year again and the girls are back with another Surviving the Holigays episode. Not every holiday is mistletoe and sunshine but hopefully, this topic will help your survival journey.
Episode Topics:
When and how to talk to your partner about the holidays.
Setting healthy boundaries with your family during the holidays.
Chosen family vs blood family for the holidays.
People pleasing during the holidays.
Tips for hosting your own Friendsgiving.
Tune in next time for...
Published 11/21/23
Is your sex life not what it used to be?
The duo dives into the episode and reveals their journey to building a healthy sex life. They also share the hard conversations they had while navigating different sex drives. Intimacy is definitely not one size fits all so you'll want to hear how Eden and Jay find a middle ground when it comes to getting close. Also, be sure to stay until the end to find out why THIS is their favorite sex toy of all time!
Tune in next Sunday for more Unfiltered!
Published 11/01/23
Jay is feeling a bit under the weather but she's pushing through for y'all!
Back by popular demand, the Q and A session is BACK!
Every Thursday on EdenxJay's Insta you can send any questions on their stories and last week the questions were too good not to bring to the podcast. Check out the topics below.
What are we wearing to our Halloween party?
Advice on not having your family at the wedding?
Advice for couples trying to start an IG page together?
What's your go-to breakfast?
When...
Published 10/06/23
The baby update you have been waiting for is here! But first things first, we're going to learn how Eden and Jay got this far in the baby process and what criteria they had for their sperm donor.... if you're guessing it was a lot... you are correct! Also, the two walk us through their baby steps into parenthood and how they started their IVF journey.
Shoutout to www.cryobank.com for being an incredible resource for finding a sperm donor and to www.hanabusaivf.com for helping make these...
Published 09/29/23
Welcome to part 2 of the most unforgettable wedding day! Join us as Jay uncovers the reasons behind her morning emotions, and Eden takes us on a journey through her favorite wedding day memories. From crafting custom Mezcal bottles to a jaw-dropping 8-minute vow exchange (yes, you read that right), this episode is packed with heartwarming tales about healthy boundaries. But wait, there's more! stay tuned for a special surprise that will leave you smiling and laughing. Tune in to this episode...
Published 09/14/23
We did the damn thing and now we're back!!! We're so excited to share our favorite (and least favorite) moments from our big day. We learned A LOT but wouldn't change it for the world. Honestly, there is so much wedding unpacking to do that we have to make a part 2!
Thank you for waiting and enjoy this special drop episode just for you!
XOXO!
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Published 09/11/23
A lot can happen in 3 weeks! from touring for Preciosa Night to throwing the FRIST EVER Latinx Pride Festival. Eden and Jay dive deep into the ups and downs of creating a safe space for their community. They would be lying if they said it was easy and certain instances where Eden gets the cops called on her by a city employee, makes it difficult to keep positive. They haven't been home in the past 3 weeks and are currently in Oaxaca for the wedding on July 29th. Thank you all for being so...
Published 07/25/23
Between the planning a wedding, a festival and a crazy pride season, we had to get you caught up on a few hot topics... Liiiike our amazing friends throwing us a surprise bridal shower…. Seriously WHAT?! And How did we get so lucky? On this episode it’s also Jay’s turn to get in her feels as she opens up about the importance of our chosen family coming to the wedding. As for Pride Season… let’s just say we have thoughts on the topic and not all of them are positive. Also, Eden get’s...
Published 06/08/23
We guess a lot can happen in 2 weeks! Our heads are still spinning from all the beautiful things we saw in Bora Bora. Wait until you hear about our favorite part of the trip. Also, we flew straight over to NYC to have our first Preciosa Night on the East Coast and it was one for the books! We had such an amazing time and truly can't wait to come back. Annnndddd we had our Preciosa Night one year party a week later and can't believe all the things that unfolded!
Catch us next week as we shift...
Published 05/25/23
You all sent some damn good questions that even made us speechless. Today you asked us to talk about Preciosa Night and where it's going, how to unlearn toxic behaviors, how to handle codependency, annnnnnnd what negative characteristics would our exes say about us..... eeeeek.
Thank you for following all things @edenxJay and for sending us your questions!
What should we talk about next week?
Published 05/04/23
Moving in with your partner after just meeting each other can have its challenges... even you Eden and Jay. The two break down the lessons they learned from Uhauling and answer deep questions sent by one of you!
Published 04/28/23
With a wedding just a few months away, Eden and Jay are all the stress with NO DRESS! Yup, the two share where they are with the BIG DAY approaching and let's say they have a long way to go. Also, they have some exciting news about a potential honeymoon opportunity but you'll have to be the judge of that.
Published 04/21/23
Is my relationship boring or just healthy? If you found yourself asking this question then this episode is definitely for you. Tune in as Eden and Jay also share stories of their past about where they stand on forgiveness.Not only are the emotions running deep but you'll hear it here first about Eden's embryo update.... step into the safe space and get ready to unpack!
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Published 04/14/23