This weeks episode with Phoenix White is AMAZING! She is a mama, CEO + business owner, speaker, author and spiritual leader. We discuss all things motherhood, business, single momming, relationships, trauma, healing, finding love again, abuse, sexual trauma, her near death experience and having brain surgery, plant medicine, non negotiable in relationships and what to look for, spirituality and so much more!  Phoenix shares her personal journey and how she found her purpose in helping women heal. She also talks about her near-death experience during brain surgery and the profound peace she felt. Phoenix opens up about her experience of rape and the challenges she faced in finding her voice and self-worth. In this part of the conversation, Phoenix White and Carly Pinchin discuss the process of healing and self-discovery after experiencing abuse. Phoenix emphasizes the importance of taking a step back and figuring out one's true identity and purpose. They also discuss the significance of creating non-negotiables in relationships and setting boundaries to protect oneself from manipulation. Phoenix shares her experience of finding a partner who loves kids and the importance of finding someone who supports and encourages personal growth. They also highlight the importance of choosing a partner who chooses you and supports your goals and passions. They emphasize the need for open communication and creating a safe space for each other to be themselves. They also discuss the balancing act of being a mother and pursuing personal goals, highlighting the importance of prioritizing oneself and not feeling guilty about it. Takeaways Finding purpose in helping others can bring fulfillment and balance in life. Near-death experiences can provide a profound sense of peace and a different perspective on life and death. Plant medicine, such as psilocybin, can be a powerful tool for healing trauma and gaining self-awareness. Healing after Sexual Abuse Survivors of trauma may struggle with finding their voice and self-worth, but healing and support can lead to empowerment. Healing and self-discovery involve taking a step back and figuring out one's true identity and purpose. Creating non-negotiables in relationships to help set boundaries and getting clear on what your soul needs to FEEL in relationship.  Choosing a partner who chooses you and supports your goals and passions is crucial for a healthy relationship. CONNECT WITH PHOENIX INSTAGRAM - @PhoenixWhite FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL BELOW: INSTAGRAM @CarlyPinchin YOUTUBE TIKTOK @CarlyPinchin LINKS Getting Clear On Your Ideal Partner Episode HERE Empowered Feminine Course