Big news in the world of Mormonism—sleeveless temple garments are officially here! This comes after past rumors, like the so-called “Cuppa Joseph” coffee allowance, but this time, it’s real. The Salt Lake Tribune has verified the introduction of these sleeveless options, though the global rollout timeline remains unclear. While some members welcome the change as a step toward more practical, breathable clothing, others see it as yet another sign of shifting doctrine. For a church that teaches...

As a continuation to our episode on excommunication, and in light of the impending excommunication of Nemo the Mormon,  we wanted to share this legendary talk by Jeremy Runnells, given at his own disciplinary council in 2016.    From CESletter.org: CES Letter is one Latter-day Saint's honest quest to get official answers from the LDS Church on its troubling origins, history, and practices. Jeremy Runnells was offered an opportunity to discuss his own doubts with a director of the Church...

In this episode of Faith Unraveled, we delve into the complex and often controversial topic of Mormon excommunication. We discuss the ongoing case of our friend, Nemo the Mormon, who is facing a disciplinary council that will likely result in his excommunication. We explore the excommunication process, its use as a tool for enforcing strict adherence to church policies, and the broader implications for those who challenge church practices or advocate for progressive change. Real-life...

In this episode of 'Faith Unraveled,' we explore the unique challenges of mixed-faith marriages after deconstructing from high-demand religions, with a special focus on post-Mormon experiences. Responding to questions from our Instagram audience, we dive into the difficulties couples face when one partner remains in the faith while the other has left, including navigating family dynamics, redefining relationships, and creating new boundaries. We share our personal journey of maintaining a...

What started as trad mom blogging project, inspired by a request from our stake president, eventually evolved into something much bigger. In this episode of Faith Unraveled, we dive into our journey from tradition Mormon couple to NOW, creating ex-Mormon content.  We touch on the challenges involved, including social ostracism and family struggles. As we delved deeper into church history and began to deconstruct our faith, we felt a strong urge to speak out.Now, we focus on addressing key...

In this episode of Faith Unraveled, we discuss the topic of church records, and how the church will try to track you down wherever you are, as long as you're a member of record! The conversation includes insights from Jamie, a "retired" ward clerk; his experiences, specifically how church records are maintained, how local wards track members' locations, and the methods used to keep members' information updated. We'll also provide some tips and detailed steps on how to formally remove your...

In this episode of Faith Unraveled we dive into what it's like AS AN EXMO to go back to church for events such as baptisms and mission farewells.  This experience can be extremely triggering when you've deconstructed.  We've gathered comments from you, the Faith Unraveled community and will share them in today's episode.  Tips, advice, and struggles from people who are living it.  --- WELCOME TO FAITH UNRAVELED:  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@faith.unraveled Instagram: ...

Today, we're tackling the deeply hurtful practice of excluding loved ones from temple ceremonies. This episode's highlight comes straight from you, our viewers! We've gathered some compelling stories and heartfelt commentary that reveal the pain, regret, and lasting impact of being excluded from or excluding others on such a significant day. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences with us. As always, we invite you to continue the conversation by sharing your own stories and...

In today's video, we're exploring how Patriarchy within the context of Mormonism impacted our relationship. While Elisha's scrupulosity played a significant role, Jamie explains that from his perspective, the true wedge between us was the patriarchal structure embedded in our religious lifestyle. In Mormonism, as in many religious settings, power dynamics are often uneven, making communication difficult and obscuring our ability to see each other as equals. These assigned roles not only...

Mentioned in today's episode:  Recovering Agency: Lifting the Veil of Mormon Mind Control : https://amzn.to/3KpahSQ   Some argue that the pain of social rejection is worse than physical pain, so does it make sense that the pressure to fit in is often overwhelming and all-consuming? Join us as we discuss the unique challenges faced by members of the Mormon faith, particularly the expectations surrounding sacrament passing, modesty, missions, and purity. We also tackle the issue of shaming...

Drawing from the book 'Recovering Agency' by Luna Lindsay Corbden, this conversation explores how social dynamics influence religious beliefs and practices. In today's episode we delve into topics such as missions, temple garments, modesty, and the overall social expectations placed on members. We explore personal experiences that reflect on the pressures to conform, the impact of indoctrination, and the challenges of leaving the faith.    The episode aims to shed light on the powerful role...

Mentioned in today's episode:  Recovering Agency: Lifting the Veil of Mormon Mind Control : https://amzn.to/3KpahSQ The Program: Cons, Cults, and Kidnapping: https://www.netflix.com/us/title/81579761?s=i&trkid=258593161&vlang=en&clip=81759643   In this episode of Faith Unraveled, we discuss  the difficult dynamic within high demand religion of replacing your own identity with the church's.  For this episode we refer to a chapter from Luna Lindsay Corbden's transformative book...

What are your go-to spiritual practices, books, or teachers?  In this episode of Faith Unraveled we discuss our winding spiritual journeys post leaving the Mormon church. We delve into the challenges of raising children without a prescriptive religious belief, emphasizing teaching a value system over doctrine. The discussion covers the transition from structured religious life to exploring various aspects of spirituality, including mindfulness, the importance of creativity, and the role of...

Here's my deconstruction story friends!  From faithful member of the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints, preparing to become a seminary teacher to completely losing my testimony overnight.  How does that happen?  It felt sudden and disorienting, but as I look back I realize that many issues were mounting in my mind.  Questions about the construct of sin which seemed paradoxical to the teachings of a loving God in heaven. The legalistic approach that the church seemed to be taking...

Does the Mormon Church harm? Please tell us your thoughts in the comments. This episode of Faith Unraveled delves into the potential harms of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS Church) towards its members, former members, and their associates. The topics discussed include family separation and strain, elitism, exclusionary practices, financial burdens, mental health issues, and gender roles, with a broader aim to explore the negative impacts of the church's doctrines and...

Today on Faith Unraveled we dive into your questions about managing friendships and family relationships after a leaving the Mormon Church. Is it possible to share those pesky "truth claim" issues with active believing loved ones, without harming your relationship? How does one make new friends after leaving the church? And how do we handle the loss of friendships after walking away from the church? We address all of it in today's episode! If you'd like to submit a question for an episode,...

On today's episode of Faith Unraveled we dive deep into the journeys of two incredible souls, Sally and Lena. You might recognize them from the powerful Hulu documentary series Mormon No More, but today, they're here with us to provide insights for LGBTQ young adults that are entering the "coming out" phase, to discuss the now infamous "Musket Talk" by Elder Holland that will be soon be incorporated into BYU Student's welcome materials, and to share some of their own unique journey of love,...

The title sure makes this episode sound more scandalous than it is!  But these are questions that you, friends, submitted so we're going there! And honestly it's been our favorite episode yet. These are fun topics after deconstruction but MAN it can be intimidating!    I hope this episode  eases some of the fear and concerns.  In our church life, I don't remember a time that pleasure was ever discussed, even during my adult life.  How wild is that?  For most people, sex is an important and...

Does the Mormon Church Give more authority to women than any other religious organization?  What a claim! (Made by Sister Dennis, First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency) But can you blame her? Swimming in Mormon waters make the Patriarchy very difficult to see.  And this is something that I (it's me, Elisha) experienced first hand.  I supported and honored the priesthood holders in my life and I never even wanted that "power and responsibility" (eye roll, please).  It's...

In this episode of Faith Unraveled, we discuss the RESCUE: the period period of healing and self discovery after a faith crisis . We share personal stories and strategies, including the use of psychedelics, engaging in community, prioritizing health and wellness, and incorporating fun and play. We also give our insights on the importance of self-advocacy, setting boundaries, and finding individual paths to healing and rediscovery after a faith crisis. We hope you enjoy this...

In this episode of Faith Unraveled, we discuss the RESCUE: the period period of healing and self discovery after a faith crisis . We share personal stories and strategies, including the use of psychedelics, engaging in community, prioritizing health and wellness, and incorporating fun and play. We also give our insights on the importance of self-advocacy, setting boundaries, and finding individual paths to healing and rediscovery after a faith crisis. We hope you enjoy this episode!

In this episode of our Faith Unraveled deconstruction series, we discuss the amazing life beyond the confines of the church. We discuss the process of deprogramming from church teachings, emphasizing the importance of unpacking internalized beliefs about joy, righteousness, and being a good person outside of Mormonism.   Drawing on our own personal experiences, we hope to debunk myths surrounding the happiness of those who leave the church and highlight the significance of reprogramming your...

Here’s our newest series Faith Unfiltered. In this series, we dive into community-submitted questions about deconstructing faith (which can be submitted by DM on Instagram). We hope you enjoy our slightly more raw presentation here as we react to our comments, discuss hypothetical actions if we were prophets of the LDS Church, including promoting transparency and canceling harmful practices, and dive into a slightly unhinged convo about trying alcohol, cannabis, and coffee for the first...

This episode of our Faith Unraveled deconstruction series focuses on the process of reclaiming personal identity after divorcing faith, specifically addressing our faith crisis within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, but these concepts extend into faith deconstruction from many denominations and we welcome all!