Inspired by a Reddit post titled 'My Wife Had Better Sex with Someone Else,' we explore our own fears and revelations when faced with the idea that our partner might experience 'better' sex outside the relationship. We delve into our own personal insecurities and discuss how the complexities of emotional and physical connections can create both challenges and opportunities for growth in our relationship. Through candid conversations about jealousy, trust, and intimacy, we uncover the ways in...

Join us as we dive into Anna's recent coffee date experience and the "nervousitement" that comes with meeting a stranger on a first date. Anna recounts her jitters leading up to the date and how Aidan encouraged her to step out of her comfort zone. From a last-minute mole inspections to heartfelt reflections on trust and autonomy, Anna shares her thoughts on the date itself, highlighting her initial impressions and the importance of honesty in dating profiles. We also discuss the broader...

🎉 Welcome Back, Everyone! 🎉 If you’re loving our podcast, please drop us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review! We're seeing so many of you tuning in – and even emailing us now – it has been awesome! 📬 Today, we’re diving into some juicy updates! 🍸 Last episode, we left you hanging on the “Superman and Wonder Woman” saga – where we had a fab time… but got a lil’ ghosted on the group chat 🦗👻. Turns out, they had a lot going on and want to reconnect, which made us wonder: Should we take it personally when people go...

In this episode, we dive into our first playdate post-engagement.💍 After weeks of build-up with a sexy couple, the other woman boldly texted Aiden, "You have my full permission to bang me”—and it was ON! Recording from the car just before our date, we chat through our nerves, excitement, and our ✨revolutionary✨ plan to "play first, THEN eat." As always, when expectations meet reality the result is hilarious, sometimes awkward, and always fun, like when their very interested dog gave Anna the...

In this episode, we get candid about our quirks, kinks, and the challenges we face with jealousy and chemistry. From my "jealousy kink" that spices things up, to Aiden’s on-the-spot encounter with "Hot Girl" at a party, to our hilarious realization that we’re basically becoming each other's "secret sluts"—there’s no shortage of juicy moments. We share real stories about balancing spontaneity with trust, setting boundaries, and the surprising ways these experiences bring us closer. Join us as...

In this episode of Hacking Love, we revisit some of our early adventures in the lifestyle, focusing on our first visit to a real sex club, revealing our expectations versus reality. We also recount our initial play experiences. From dealing with unexpected challenges and performance issues to finding our rhythm in group dynamics, we discuss how these experiences have helped us learn and grow as individuals and as a couple. Throughout the episode, we highlight the importance of communication,...

In this episode, we kick things off with a shout-out to some of our new listeners all over the world. Listen for your city! Thank you all and feel free to reach out to us! 🫶 In this episode, we dive into our recent lifestyle experiences and how we've learned to balance feelings of jealousy and freedom. One highlight anecdote of the episode revolves around our date to a concert with couple we like. We share our excitement and the series of funny and real moments, along with in-the-moment...

Ready to be your best, hottest and most sexy self? We'll show you exactly how! In this episode of Hacking Love, we explore the critical role health and hormones play in transforming your body and preparing you for active, fulfilling lifestyle experiences. Anna draws from her considerable experience in this area, discussing how to achieve hormonal balance and sexual wellness, how to overcome challenges like erectile dysfunction and body issues, and the importance of a functional medicine...

In this episode of “Hacking Love”, Anna grapples with deeply ingrained societal conditioning around sexuality, and her own sense of self-worth. From early-age teachings about the 'proper' roles for women, to confronting double standards, she shares her internal conflicts and evolving perspective shaped by her experiences in the lifestyle community. Listen as we unpack our battles with slut-shaming, hyper-selectivity, and societal expectations, all while navigating our relationship and...

As Aiden and Anna prepare for a lifestyle pool party, beginning the recording just before they head out. Anna candidly shares her feelings of self-consciousness and insecurity, particularly around an attractive single woman, which triggers her jealousy. Throughout the episode, the couple debate and discuss their expectations, anxieties, and dynamics, both before and after the party. As the night unfolds, Anna finds herself navigating her feelings, connecting with others, and ultimately...

In this episode, Anna and Aiden tackle the question of separate play in their open relationship. Anna proposes that, in order to deal with her own insecurities, Aiden hook up with a particularly attractive and adventurous single woman from their lifestyle group while she's away on work trips. The couple discusses feelings of jealousy, personal boundaries, and the tangled web of emotions that often come with ethical non-monogamy. Aiden recalls his previous experiences with separate play and...

In this episode, we dive into monogamous marriage conflict traps, advocating for the 'let them' philosophy of relinquishing control of others. We also update you on our journey getting to know the 'Smart-Amazon' couple as we brainstorm ways to build chemistry and ensure everyone feels comfortable. Anna gets excited for an upcoming playdate. Email us at [email protected] Join the conversation on our new Facebook Group! 💖

Welcome back! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of lifestyle podcasts and apps, sharing our personal journey and experiences along the way. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride as we dip our toes into the waters of non-monogamy. We kick things off by reminiscing about our initial forays into lifestyle podcasts, recounting how they opened our eyes to new possibilities and helped us redefine our relationship. From reading influential books like 'Sex at Dawn,' 'Polywise,' and 'The...

In this revealing episode, we dive deep into our journey of reconnecting after a significant breakup, highlighting the transformative power of humility and vulnerability, coupled with effective counseling. We describe the importance of finding a non-judgmental counselor experienced in ethical non-monogamy, recounting our challenging yet enlightening sessions. We share personal anecdotes about overcoming past relationship traumas, the healing process, and the profound realization of true love....

In this episode, we (Anna & Aiden) open the doors to our world, engaging in a heartfelt and unfiltered conversation about our journey within the lifestyle—non-monogamous relationships. We share raw, personal reflections on the intricate dance of trust, etiquette, and discretion within our community. We’ll share an account of our recent party, providing a window into our encounters with fellow lifestyle members and highlighting the dramatic shift from traditional monogamy to a more open,...

In this intimate episode, we dive into our thoughts and experiences from a recent lifestyle party we hosted. Recorded immediately after the event, we share our raw and unfiltered reflections, capturing our feelings and insights while still under the spell of the night's naughtiness. Join us as we discuss the dynamics of the party, our personal revelations, and the connections we made with some wonderful people. Please note, we are not in our normal frame of mind as we were still feeling the...

In this episode, Anna and Aiden recount their tumultuous breakup which was filled with misunderstandings, miscommunications, and hurt feelings. The story begins with a nostalgic reflection on a concert that brings up old wounds from their first year of dating, leading to discussions about trust issues and significant moments of miscommunication and misunderstanding. From their painful breakup to a surprising reunion at a Christmas party, they go deep into the emotional complexities of their...

In this episode, we dive deep into our first adventurous steps into the world of non-monogamy. We reflect on our experiences at a festival sex tent and later, our surprising experience at the infamous Burning Man Orgy Dome. We discuss the significance of exploring our boundaries, dealing with emotions like jealousy and excitement, and the critical lessons we learned about consent, communication, and personal growth. Our conversation touches on how these encounters have influenced our...

In this episode of "Hacking Love," Anna and Aiden share their journey into redefining their relationship and leveraging aspects of ethical non-monogamy to enhance their individual and mutual growth after their difficult divorces. They explore topics such as relationships, honesty, and the flaws they discovered in traditional relationship models.The couple discusses: Their early conversations about avoiding traditional monogamySetting a foundation based on openness, transparency, and...

Welcome to the premiere episode of 'Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships.' Join hosts Aiden and Anna as they embark on a candid journey to explore the dynamics of open relationships and the tools to foster deeper connections through radical transparency and ethical non-monogamy. In this introductory episode, get to know Aiden and Anna, their experiences with love, heartbreak, and growth, and the motivations behind starting this podcast. They'll discuss their past...