Join us as we dive into Anna's recent coffee date experience and the "nervousitement" that comes with meeting a stranger on a first date. Anna recounts her jitters leading up to the date and how Aidan encouraged her to step out of her comfort zone. From a last-minute mole inspections to heartfelt reflections on trust and autonomy, Anna shares her thoughts on the date itself, highlighting her initial impressions and the importance of honesty in dating profiles. We also discuss the broader challenges of being single in the lifestyle and the unique dynamics that come with it. Meanwhile, Aidan provides his perspective on what it's like to be the partner staying at home, offering candid insights into his own feelings of slight jealousy and support. We wrap up with a candid conversation about what happens when "coming out" to friends and others who might not fully understand the concept of ENM.