In this episode, I share some of the mind-blowing facts and concepts I've recently learned about kink in school. The specific article I reference comes from the Wiley Handbook of Sex Therapy, published in 2017, which includes fun facts about kink,  common myths, reasons people may seek therapy for their kinks, and what we can learn from kinky people. Listen to the end, because there is an incredible section from the book that shows an empirically-validated foundation for kink and BDSM altering states of consciousness. WHAT?! I know, so cool. Also I answer a question about what to do when you're accidentally gaslighting your partner! My Favorite Toys and Products My Instagram If you want me to answer one of your questions, email me at [email protected] with the subject line "HANDY HELP ME."