This is the last installment for the 4-part series of annual reset challenge! Alhamdullilah! if you have stuck with me up until this point, I just want to say Thank you so much! for doing this together with me.
In this week's challenge, I'm going to share how to prepare our minds and equip ourself with something that we can use to overcome a difficult situation. It's all about reflecting the "negative self-talk" that you have when setbacks happen & how to "reframe" these into positive thoughts to better serve you and help you continue working on your goals.
Few scenarios that you can think about are: when you are facing a failure, a disappointment, when challenges or hardships strikes, when facing a conflict or feeling left out, when you made a mistake, when someone confronted you or when you were criticized... what are the negative self-talk surrounding or keep replaying in your head when these tough moments happen?
Other Questions to ask yourself:
- "Why do I have this negative thought about myself? Where is it coming from?" (understanding what's going on without judgement)
- "Is there another way to look at this situation?" (Reframing)
- "What would I say to a friend who had this problem?" (Reframing)
- "What would this (i.e. reframed mindset) look like for me?" (final question to solidify this reframed mindset by imagining how it would apply in real-life situation)
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