A few things that gross me out about porno mythsBy LargoKitt. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex.What I HATE About PornRight up front let me make it clear that I watch erotica, read erotica, and write erotica. Please scope out my stories or poems or even my art and I think you will be pleased. Porn is very ancient stuff. Prehistoric people were making images designed to turn them on, and I'm sure they were sitting around the campfire and telling spicy stories. Motivating people to do the...

 A How-To guide for Those terrified about the other sex.With contributions from DG Hear. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. Throughout the years dating has changed. Those who have gone back into dating in recent years, for whatever reason, have probably found it's a whole new ball game. But more than a few people enter their twenties, still terrified to initiate a romantic venture.Some are still impacted by traumatic events of their youth. Still others are limited because of harmful...

STDs: What Are They and How Do You [not] Get Them?By Everyday Health. Listen to the ► Podcast at How To Sex.   This episode deals with the following STD concerns: Chlamydia,  Genital Herpes, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, HIV, HPV, Molluscum Contagiosum, Syphilis, Trichomoniasis, Chlamydia, Genital Herpes, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, HIV, HPV, Molluscum Contagiosum, Syphilis, Trichomoniasis.The number of cases of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), now more commonly referred to as sexually transmitted...

The Many Pregnancy Prevention OptionsBy Everyday Health. Listen to the ► Podcast at How To Sex. Contraception Options 101: Everything You Need to Know About Birth ControlHere’s the lowdown on pregnancy prevention with pills, patches, implants, and other types of birth control, plus information on effectiveness, availability, cost, and more.By Cheryl Alkon; By John Paul McHugh, MD courtesy of American College of Lifestyle MedicineUpdated on August 28, 2023It’s a fact: If you’re a woman, and...

 Recklessness ruptured my plumbing, and permanently curtailed my sex life. By Anonymous. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. I F****d up. I am writing this mainly because there is not a lot of information about this particular injury Around October of last year I was having sex with my girlfriend, when I thrust too hard at the wrong angle and tore my Urethra and two blood vessels in my penis. When the injury first occurred I was close to climaxing. Because of this, when the injury happened...

Tie up your man and go to town. By alf_2712. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. Bondage sex is often associated with Sado Masochism. But that vaste generalization does a great disservice to a wide range of sexual proclivities. Each part of this grouping ought to be understood on it’s own attributes. Bondage is simply adding real or perceived restrictions in a sexual encounter. It’s the fantasy of lost control over a situation which thrills many lovers. It often incorporates a fantasy...

  Fundamentals, Types and Roles, Safety Rules, and More By Nuna Alberts, LCSW. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. If you’ve ever fantasized about getting kinky in the bedroom, you’re not alone. The runaway success of E. L. James’s Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy of books; the three top-selling print and e-books in the United States between 2010 and 2019; not to mention the sales of the movies they generated, prove that interest in BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and...

 A discussion of Advanced Maturity and Sexuality By Mark Stibich, PhD. Listen to the ► podcast at How To Sex. Many people in their 70s and 80s are not only sexually active, but satisfied with their senior sex lives. University of Michigan Institute for Healthcare Policy and Innovation. Let’s talk about sex. Though the frequency or ability to perform sexually may decline with age due to physiological changes, these don't necessarily affect how a person experiences or enjoys sex. Aging-related...

 Weird Hormones and suppressed fetishes can make expecting, a delight. By various parents. Listen to the podcast at How To Sex. A young and frisky married couple is contemplating having a baby. They’re seeking advice on lots of things, but the question that came to us is; “What is sex like, during pregnancy and after? Some details are straight-forward and answers are easy. Like; It’s rare for an obstetrician to recommend any limits on sexual intercourse, and in those rare situations, Couples...

 Fred Requests a woman's point of view to help him understand. Then Maye weighs in with good memories and advice.By BOSTON FICTION WRITER & MayhemLass Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. Fred’s QuestionDear BFW;I've never tried anal sex before. It never appealed to me. Actually, I never have given it much thought until I perused the anal sex category here at Literotica and found it so popular. I am a bit embarrassed to admit it, but I have never even had sex doggie style either. Yes, I...

Can I find a device make it better for us? By Anonymous.  Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. A battery-charged vibrator Sex toys — also called adult toys or “marital aids” — are objects people use to have more pleasure during sex or masturbation. Sometimes sex toys can also have medical uses if you have a sexual dysfunction or medical condition. There are many different types of sex toys, and people use them for lots of different reasons.  It’s totally normal to use sex toys, but it’s also...

Why creepy guys often don't get laid, even at a swingers’ clubBy Hord Holm. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. I've been to a Swinger Club on roughly a dozen occasions, so perhaps not enough to count myself as an expert. But perhaps enough to have observed some common behaviors, and these are what I want to address here, particularly in relation to single guys who go to Swinger Clubs. The Swinger Club ScenarioWhat usually happens is that my husband suggests that we go to our preferred club...

Do you seek to be comfortable in your body, or be just a piece of meat?By Zahra Barnes & Dr Nikki Goldstein. Listen to the podcast at How To Sex. Getting naked with a mixed social group might be a tantalizing item on your bucket list, but the options can be radically different, and lead to disappointment, even betrayal and abandonment. To the person who’s never seriously considered getting naked in a large mixed group, perhaps all the options seem the same. But where some groups, like...

Prone Positions for intimacyBY THE EDITORS OF MEN’S HEALTH. Listen to the ► Podcast at How To Sex.A fun, new sex position is an easy way to immerse yourself in a sexual experience. Take a much-needed break from stressing about work or the state of the world by attempting something adventurous in the bedroom, like the many sex positions you’ll find on this list. (Don’t worry, we also included fan favorites like missionary, cowgirl, spooning, and doggy style. Which positions should you try...

 Creative positions for intimacy: Standing or SittingBY THE EDITORS OF MEN’S HEALTH. Listen to the ► Podcast at How To Sex. If you suddenly have an itch to try some new sex positions, we’re not surprised. When we recently surveyed 1,229 American men about their sex lives, a third of respondents said they’re feeling more sexually experimental now than before the pandemic began. According to Justin Lehmiller, Kinsey Institute researcher and member of the Men’s Health Advisory Panel, stress...

 Don’t give up on what used to be a good thing. By Ashley Welch & Kara Leigh Smythe, MD. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. There was once a time when your relationship had magic. That spark of romance, anticipation, and bonding. You’ve invested so much, until things somehow went south. It might have been a major incident, or a slow drifting away from each other. It might be a personal health issue, or a forced new environment for the two of you. We’ll look at home treatments and try to...

 The dating world’s been flipping on its head. With input by Blonde&Balanced and Dinsmore. Listen to the Podcast at How To sex. Clearly, western culture has started failing to secure our survival. We saw it in western Europe, late in the last century. Plus, totalitarian Asian governments dictated it. We quit having enough babies to replace ourselves. We quit teaching our younger generations that a big part of existence is, creating more existence. We delegated out so much of parenthood,...

How Many Positions Have You Tried?By silk stockings lover. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex.  Several classic books detail the dozens of positions for f*****g. In the 70’s, The Joy of Sex was a big hit. It inspired great f*****g, and some occasional trips to the emergency room, with some embarrassing admissions, especially at the Catholic hospitals where nuns circulated and prayed for injured patients.But most couples fell deeper in love with each other, and late night tv ratings dropped,...

 What should a man know before he dates a nymphomaniac?  With  Clint Jahn & Olivia Bury. Listen to the podcast at How To Sex. Most people do not understand nymphomania. It’s real, but it’s not a mythological magic power. Nor is a Satyriasis.  There is a vast difference between a woman who enjoys sex and has a high sex drive and a nymphomaniac. When referring to a man with the same obsessive sexual compulsion, the correct term is: satyriasis. Nymphomania is reserved for females. The...

 Too much of a good thing. It appears she has persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) By Brian Alexander. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. The other day, a few media outlets in the New York region covered the story of a woman who can’t seem to stop having orgasms, which would seem joke-ready but can actually be a nightmare. Doctor Brian Alexander files this assessment; While the New Jersey woman’s condition has not been formally diagnosed, it appears she has persistent genital arousal...

 The keys to open up some pretty wild doors. By heel licker & By Bats and Glamour. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. He's asked you to talk dirty, but you don't know how. So your lover has asked you to talk dirty to him. You may think of yourself as kinky and that you have a dirty mind but when you try to talk dirty the words just don't come to you. If nasty talk doesn't come naturally to you then this how-to is for you. Keep in mind is that he is a guy, his mind is dirtier than yours....

How you can get your woman to squirt. By Alice_Roissy & dirtyjoe69. Listen to the Podcast at How To Sex. Today we’re discussing the manifestation of female ejaculation, or what’s commonly called ‘squirting.’ Many a woman has been subjected to shame & humiliation by an ignorant lover who assumes that the chick just pissed in bed, in the middle of lovemaking. The truth is, He caused it more than she did. And he should actually be proud of his superior coupling skills. Bless his darling...

Young Brittni shares tips and advice on the art of deepthroating. By Brittni4u. Listen to the Podcast at How-to Sex. On the internet in general, there are several stories and guides posted on the subject of giving blowjobs. Many of them are great and give various techniques and opinions on how to enhance oral sex on a guy. Once again, I'm not claiming to be an expert, especially at the young age of 22, but I do have skill, experience and above all, enthusiasm. In this post, I'm focusing on...

 A textbook For the Art of fellatio.By Bee cee. Listen to the podcast at How To Sex.The old world of centuries past, had a trusted process of passing on skills from one generation to the next. Apprenticeships were an effective way to learn through practice. The concept is still used in many trades, But today it also incorporates testing and demonstrations of skills acquired, in order to be certified by an oversight guild or trade association. We’re instituting this same concept of mastery, to...