“I found the Haven back in October 2019 about 2 weeks after discovering my wife’s 10month long affair. On the beginning the Haven really helped me. I began to focus on WHATBI COULD CONTROL and the things I couldn’t. After about 5weeks my wife says she noticed a difference in me but that she didn’t want to give me false hope. This was her questioning whether what she saw was real or not. A couple months later I lost focus around the holidays and her affair partner was pushing her to move out. We have 3 young kids and she chose the AP and moved out. I wish I hadn’t lost focus because I think things would be different today. Nevertheless I’m refocused today and I listen to these podcasts to remind me of my path to focus only on what I can control. I’m starting from scratch but these hiccups can happen and I’ve learned from it and I’m gonna be the best person I can be when all is said and done and maybe just maybe I’ll be the best husband as well and my wife will see that one day.
Thanks Stephen for the literature and Podcats!”
LODEFEATER via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
07/22/20