Statistics upon statistics show that it's pretty rough for the great majority of men on dating apps.  Just 10% (or less) of men get ALL the women liking them, leaving some 90% of men with little to no swipes, matches, conversations, dates - and thus - romantic relationships.  Men are lonelier than ever.  Why is this happening??  What's the solution?  And what's it REALLY like out there if you're a dude on the apps?  Jinah and Daniel drill down to the problem with two male app daters.  With...

Do you long for the good ole days before we had dating apps, when finding your match was an IRL event? In this episode, Daniel and Jinah chat with matchmaker and author Cassindy Chao (@matchmakercassindy). Her book, Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love, uses traditional Chinese proverbs as a source of modern dating advice. You’ll want to check out Cassindy’s advice for standing out on the apps, including her advice for how to make an impression that lasts, long after the date is over.

Are more and more older women dating younger men? While we’re used to seeing famous women as “cougars,” these May-December romances may be going mainstream. At first, Jinah thought her matches with younger men were exceptions, but then they kept on coming. So I Hate Dating Apps enlisted relationship coach Deb Dutcher to explain why this is happening, and what it means for the modern dating scene. Cougars, unite!

YESSSS! Jinah and Daniel are officially in year TWO of their podcast!  And in this debut episode of season 2, you get to know us a little bit better.  The dynamic duo muses about topics like whether dating for marriage even makes sense anymore, how growing up Jehovah's Witness shaped Jinah into who she became (and maybe explains why her dating life is a hot mess), and how Daniel used to make money off of cannibis and young, hot Korean boy bands (it's not what you think, people).  THANK YOU...

So you're sick and tired of the dating apps and you want to go back to trying your luck with IRL - In Real Life.  You're hitting bar after club after bar - and soon realize you just don't have the guts every weekend to hit up the cute guy or girl on your own.  This is where the wingman (or wing woman) comes in!  They have NO problem going up to someone as long as they're "asking for a friend."   In this episode, Daniel and Jinah talk to Hunter Werner (@hunterwoty), who created a whole...

Dating apps suck for everyone, but it sucks even worse if you're introverted and socially anxious.  So what is one to do when the idea of getting dressed up, going out and talking to someone for hours at a bar or restaurant sounds worse than a root canal??  Jinah and Daniel talk to writer and relationship coach Cain Parish (cainparish.com, @cainparish), who is on a mission to make dating better for everyone, but especially introverts. Cain was the definition of a low social battery...

What is it like to be in the dating app world over the age of 50?  Well... it's a bit of a shit show according to author, equestrian, and radio DJ Catherine Berra (CatherineBerra.com).  Catherine ventured out into the world of online dating at 48, spent 10 years trying to figure it all out and the resulting hilarious dating stories are now in her book "These stories are true... I s#!+ you not!" She shares some of them with Jinah and Daniel. Join us for a lively discussion about "dating...

So you're about to delete your dating apps.  Again.  But then you realize - how am I gonna meet people then??  Before you panic and re-install your dating app, listen to our two professional matchmaker guests talk about what it's like to have someone literally working for you so you can go on curated dates.  Hint: it ain't cheap!!  Matchmaking is as old as civilization. From the days of highly prized matchmakers who knew just the right princess for the king-to-be, to glossy ads on airline...

Not so long ago, it was pretty darn clear who was supposed to ask who out on the first date.  Not anymore.  In this Wild Wild West of app dating, the rules have gone out the window, resulting in confusion for some, resentment in others, and lack of courage and effort all the way around.  We ask our guests Luis (@uonmobileapp) and Samantha (@skmcintosh) who should make the first move?

To delete or not to delete…that was the question facing our guests @laylamyarr and @susan.pappas. Tired of bad dates, endless messaging, and misleading profiles, they were resigning themselves to permanent single status when lightning struck! Check out our newest episode and hear what happened right when they were about to give up!

Ladies —if you’re wondering what “the good catches” are looking for on dating apps, this episode is for you!  We look at straight men’s biggest pet peeves with women on the apps.  Why won't women give men a chance?? Featuring bachelor guests Joshua, @jj_no_chaser and Dhruv,  @midlifemasculine

Sometimes, women just need to DISH on all the things we find wrong with dating MEN on the apps.  This is that episode.  With guests @marialingbanan and @mayleeshow

Jinah's been braving it all on her own on the apps.  But let's be real - it's rough out there! So - we signed up relationship coaches Charlene Byars of CharleneByars.com and Jesse and Brandon of datingcoaches.net - to give the male and female coaches' perspectives on what Jinah should do to find real love.   And what they said... wasn't exactly what Jinah expected to hear.  Featuring @brandonjesse_unloaded, @mscharlenebyars - who also coached our friend Kayvon in an earlier episode.

Jinah shares her experience of a date that took an unexpected turn when her companion revealed he had Asperger's. In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities of dating on the Autism Spectrum, exploring how neurotypical individuals can approach relationships with understanding and empathy.  Featuring discussions with guests Bobby Cappuccio (@theselfhelpantidote) and clinical ASD specialist Anna Marie Dorelien (@adorelienbcba). Tune in for expert advice and meaningful...

Kayvon, a former guest on the "Ghosting" episode of our podcast, hasn't had any luck on dating apps - literally hasn't gone on a single date - despite being on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel - and about 6 others. Kayvon is super cool - so WTF is going on?? We signed up relationship coaches Jesse and Brandon of datingcoaches.net and Charlene Byars of CharleneByars.com - to give the male and female coaches' perspectives on what may be happening.   And what they said - was oh, so...

Farmers Only, No Liberals, No Conservatives, Cat Lovers Only, etc... When Tinder, Bumble and Hinge just aren't working for you, why not go hyper-specific on your dating needs and wants?  In this episode, we dive deep into niche dating apps, with guests Jon Pethke of CoyAmore.com and Eric McHugh of Dataing.io who talk about apps that cater towards introverted daters and AI-assisted matchmaking. @coyamoredating @ericdmchugh @bone._apple._teeth

Surveys show that people of color have a tougher time on dating apps, and few have it worse than Asian and South Asian men. We talk to two prolific app daters who share their cringey experiences - and also answer this critical question: C'mon - didn't BTS make it better for you?? With guests @georgekiriyama and @archithseshadri

Let's face it - we all get to the point where we are sooooo burned out on dating apps, and we just want to DELETE them. But inevitably, many of us get back on 'em cuz... there aren't too many convenient alternatives out there. In this episode, we talk with two guests who swore off the dating apps, and tried to go old school. Did they have better luck?? With @wild_930 and @lornasoonhee

Does literally everyone lie on dating apps? Sure seems like it - whether it’s about our age, height, jobs or size. And of course - we all have a justification about our “white lies.”  Jinah, Daniel and our two guests talk about the most common lies on the apps, and decide where to draw the line between fact and fiction.  With guests @benbrookz and @facetsinpixels

 Why? Seriously, can someone explain WHY women and men seem to be so far apart in what we're looking for on dating apps?? Jinah and Daniel bring in two men and two women as guests so we can all chat about how the dating app experience differs for each sex. With guests @missvegatoyou @808golfergirl @kenneth.jacobs.733 and @commonsense150

After a three-hour second date and some great chemistry, our guest Maria (and we) are shocked at the real reason a suave British hunk ghosts her.  Hint: it unraveled over $5.  And fair warning: you'll have all kinds of opinions about this episode! Featuring @maria_hunt, @hanijkim, @dannoamanno, @ihatedatingappspod

Men - and yes, it's usually men - seem to go from 0 to Sexting after only a handful of messages. Or - as our guests have experienced, as the opening line after "hello, great to match with you."  What compels men to do that? Really - W to the T to the F???  Featuring guests: @dominiquedigi and @rahquel 

Bathroom selfies, all-sunglasses photos, bad grammar, negativity.  You've seen it all, and they SUCK.  And wait—is that your boyfriend's profile on Tinder? Don't jump to conclusions—we dive into our top dating app profile no-no's with two hilarious guests.