This conversation took place in January when I, Queen Caro, returned from my MFA residency in Vermont. Over the course of an hour, Riley and I talked about: the idea of marriage being an active choice, whether you have to put yourself in dangerous situations (i.e. in a bar with Ryan Gosling at two in the morning) in order to make that choice, and whether it's possible for me to get in a drunken fistfight without Riley feeling obliged to step in. It's one of those little conversational gems where Riley and I actually disagree MORE as the hour goes on, likely because I was getting drunk as a skunk while we talked.