Episode 38 - We always try to get better, not be "good enough" In any relationship where we are growing and evolving, we have to expect that our needs and desires are going to change as we change. But in relationships, it can be challenging to hear that our partner wants or needs more from us. On one hand we might say we want to grow together. But then, when our partner grows and has new needs and desires, can we step forward to meet them? There is perhaps nothing that has changed more for...

Episode 37 - How I control my submissive Control is a very charged word that comes with a lot of fear, judgement, and resistance. It’s also something that has often been abused. But inside of a loving Dom/sub relationship, consensual control is a central theme. There’s turn on in taking control. Surrendering control. It’s what makes power exchange into power exchange! In this episode, we explore control. What it is for us. The role it plays in our dynamic. The differences between being in...

Episode 36 - Keeping passion and desire alive over the long term - Dating, Novelty, and Sex Dom/sub relationships are often thought of in terms of control, obedience, and structure. But in a long term, loving relationship, things like romance, and continuing to date each other, are spoken about as valuable. So how do WE bring these two things together? This is what we discuss in this episode of Dom Sub Devotion. Recorded on a Friday, already dressed to head out on a date night together, we...

Episode 35: How we make decisions in our D/s marriage - Streamed Live on YouTube Over 5 years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, we’ve learned some lessons about keeping consistent, and with stayingThis episode was streamed live! If you want to make sure you get notified of future livestreams, subscribe to our channel and to our email list by clicking here! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe  We had dozens of our followers join us live to hear us discuss decision making in our D/s...

Episode 34: How we stay consistent in our D/s dynamic Over 5 years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, we’ve learned some lessons about keeping consistent, and with staying connected to our D/s relationship. In this episode, we discuss some of the ways we’ve managed to stay consistent in our D/s, even in the midst of challenges, children, illnesses, and busy lives. And we share some of the strategies that our listeners can learn from our approach to keep your own D/s dynamic strong over the long...

https://infinitedevotion.com/communion   We are accepting enrollments for our premier program for women: Communion. This six month immersion begins on June 3rd, 2024. If you are a woman who is seeking a deeper connection to your own body, soul, and truth, this is what you've been looking for. Click the link below to learn more and join us!  Episode 33: Overcoming Overthinking Overthinking is a challenge that comes into direct confrontation with any attempts to engage in deeper intimacy in...

Episode 32: Finding ourselves through our Dom/sub marriage The seeking of authenticity has been an integral part of what has made our D/s marriage so special and unique. So often, D/s relationships value things like obedience and performance. But for us, this has always been about deeper intimacy with each other. And that has led us to look inward and become more of who we really are. But authenticity can bring us apart. Or certainly lead us to fear losing love or being abandoned, because...

Episode 31: Living in your feminine energy - Dawn's Experience I don’t think there’s anything that is more confusing, and more often confused, than what it really means to be “in your feminine” as a woman in today’s world. What the heck does that even mean? And how does a woman actually LIVE that way? This is what we explore together in this episode of Dom Sub Devotion. As Dawn reflects her experience of coming out of a very masculine expression into a feminine expression, she shares...

Episode 30: Q&A with a 24/7 Dominant Last week, you got to hear from Dawn in “Ask Dawn Anything” And this week, it’s Andrew’s turn. We asked for questions that you wanted to hear Andrew’s reflections on, and we got some great ones. Here are just a few of the questions he answered during this hour long Q&A. How can I empower my man to be more Dominant? You talked about masculine energy for women, is there a healthy feminine energy for men? How do you share your emotions/feelings...

We dedicated this episode to a Q&A that’s just for Dawn to share her experience and answer our listeners’ and followers’ questions. Here are just a few of the questions that she was asked in this episode: Do you get a lot of questions about your collar? As a new sub, what would be your biggest piece of advice for me starting on this journey? How do I get my submissive to be more submissive and obedient? I want to be submissive SO badly, but I feel so much shame about even wanting...

So many couples face real challenges when they try to take D/s out of the bedroom and bring it into the living room. In this episode, we discuss why it is that the same things that work to drive the energy of kink don’t work the same when we’re dealing with the energy of love. And how separating the concepts of D/s from BDSM is an important start to bringing the heart into our power exchange dynamics. For more on how Andrew & Dawn support individuals and couples in experiencing loving...

My good friend Eric is back on the Dom Sub Devotion podcast for another conversation with me in the exploration of conscious Dominance. And in this episode, we dive into the meaning of the word consent and how it opens the door to a deeper, more meaningful Dom/sub dynamic when it is seen as an opportunity for connection, rather than an agreement to avoid feeling and emotion. And you won't want to miss Eric's special gift of analogy, when he compares different types of D/s dynamics to...

How do we relate to the concept of trust inside of Dom/sub relationships? In this episode, Andrew & Dawn discuss trust. We dive into how trust is earned, how it's given, and what to do when it's broken. And, in a fascinating part of this conversation, we venture into an exploration of conscious relating through the lens of trust, as Dawn explores how her ego would bring up feelings of a lack of trust in Andrew, which were in reality projections and fears masking as a lack of...

https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man - In our new course for men, we teach you how you can build the inner strength that it takes to lead a submissive woman through a loving D/s dynamic...by first becoming Dominant over yourself.    There is nothing quite so confounding to men as the emotions of their woman. In fact, many men seem to approach Dominance as a means to finally have some control over these emotions, or at least the ability to deal with them.    But what happens...

Our first ever guest on Dom Sub Devotion is Eric from the Elemental Arts Initiative. Eric is a coach and teacher with a diverse and fascinating history that he shares in this episode. He is also my personal friend and confidant. Having other Dominant men in your life isn't just important, it's essential. Eric and I talk every week about our own lives, our relationships, and the challenges we're facing and working to lead ourselves and our submissives through. Our conversations were so...

We live over half the year out of a fifth-wheel camper, traveling to new and different places. And in this episode we discuss some of how that has helped our D/s dynamic, and some of the challenges that come with it. One of those challenges is the fact that we run our business, Infinite Devotion, out of this very small space. And when a thunderstorm kicks off when you're recording a podcast, you can hear it! So enjoy this conversation, and the soothing sounds of a thunderstorm raging in the...

This episode discusses what it truly takes for a man to embody Dominance as a way of being, not just something he does with, or to, women. Andrew's new course for men that guides you through your own process of becoming a Dominant man is available now. You can learn more and join at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1

In this episode, we went live on Youtube to interact with our followers and share some of the ways that becoming a Dom/sub couple has made our marriage better. We live streamed this on the evening before our 13th anniversary, and a couple days before Dawn's birthday, and we ended with some very sweet birthday messages for her from our followers. Make sure to subscribe to us on youtube at https://youtube.com/@infinitedevotion to join us in future livestream podcast episodes!

This is the deepest we've ever let our viewers into our dynamic. Not only do we share more specifics about our D/s marriage than we ever have before in this episode...we get even deeper into WHY the rules are in place, and how Sir goes about setting this structure. If you want to set up a 24/7 D/s dynamic in a loving, healthy way, this episode will give you so much help! Not just in what to do, but in the importance of knowing why you're doing what you're doing, so you can make everything...

Every relationship is going to have conflict and disagreement at times. In Episode 20, we talk about how our D/s dynamic has helped us use these moments as opportunities to go deeper into our intimacy and connection with each other. You can learn more about how Andrew & Dawn support individuals and couples seeking to live loving D/s dynamics inside of healthy relationships at www.infinitedevotion.com. And don't forget to visit https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds to download...

Download our free guide to Devotional Dominance & submission at https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds See all the ways we support loving, healthy D/s dynamics at https://infinitedevotion.com or on Instagram at https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion The more I kept myself under my own control, the less I could rely on Sir to lead me. I'll never forget when he told me that if I was ever going to let him fully lead me, I had to stop Domming myself. This episode tells the stories...

Dom sub Devotion is a podcast from a married 24/7 D/s couple, where we share the depths of love and devotion that we've found through our Dom/sub dynamic over the last 5+ years. You can learn more about Andrew & Dawn, including the courses and coaching that we offer, through our website at https://infinitedevotion.com ~~~~~~~ It's time for another Q&A episode! Andrew & Dawn answer all sorts of our followers' questions. What's it like wearing a collar 24/7? Do you fear losing...

I got to interview Andrew for this episode, and wow was it fun! He told me to ask him anything I wanted, and he really delivered on his answers. I hope that this episode helps you see more deeply into what being a Dominant is really like, and what it takes to be a leader in a loving 24/7 D/s dynamic. And why I feel so special to be his submissive. Rapture 2024 starts on January 28th, and we can't wait to meet all of our wonderful participants. We have a couple of spots left for the right...

As a 24/7 married Dom/sub couple, we've gone deep into what makes love and D/s work together. In this episode, Andrew interviews his wife and submissive, Dawn, about her experience of submission. This deep, and vulnerable conversation exposes her experience in learning to let go, stop overthinking, and allow herself to truly trust and depend on Andrew as her husband and her Dominant. This is part one of a two part series as a lead up to Rapture, our most powerful educational offering each...

People ask us all the time...how did your D/s dynamic...and your relationship overall...become so powerful and deep? The answer...our dreams died. We tell one of the hardest stories from our marriage in this episode, and how it eventually led to everything we now experience together. The lessons we have learned from the hardest parts of our past are what we bring to our teachings, and none of these teachings are more powerful than Rapture. Enrollment is open now, and the 3 month live...