Episodes
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Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship.
We also...
Published 11/25/24
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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the topic of 'mindless obedience' within the context of a loving 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic.
Inside this episode, we explore the intricacies and challenges Dawn has faces in letting go of control and embracing submission, and how doing so has helped to enhance intimacy and connection.
And she shares her personal experiences and...
Published 11/18/24
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Welcome to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast!
In this episode, we share the intimate and transformative journey of moving from a permanent home to a full-time nomadic lifestyle. We explore the emotional challenges, particularly the deep-rooted feelings and familial ties, and the intense preparation leading up to this life-changing decision.
You'll see our reflections on personal growth, dealing...
Published 11/11/24
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A few weeks back, we did two “Ask A Dom Anything” episodes, and in those episodes, we promised to record a follow up episode answering the three “Big Questions” that were asked by lots and lots of submissives when we solicited those questions.
This episode is here to deliver on that promise.
What are those three questions?
How do I encourage my...
Published 11/04/24
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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the intricate relationship between feminine beauty, self-care, and the dominant-submissive dynamic within our 24/7 DS marriage.
Inspired by an email Dawn received from a list that she’s on, we tackle modern beauty standards, the pressure of perfectionism exacerbated by social media, and the 'crunchy' community's approach to self-care.
This...
Published 10/28/24
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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the critical importance of self-care for dominant men within 24/7 DS marriages and relationships.
An especially important topic in this discussion is the pitfall of self sacrifice for men, and an alternative approach to giving of ourselves while also taking care of ourselves. It’s no secret to anyone who explores a deep 24/7 dynamic...
Published 10/21/24
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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the often repeated statement that “The submissive ACTUALLY holds all the power”.
We dissect this concept, emphasizing the critical role of consent and safe words in power exchange dynamics, but also the nuances of how those things play out when we start delving into these deeply trusting dynamics.
Speaking of nuance…the discussion explores...
Published 10/14/24
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Dom-Sub Dynamics and Healthy Communication: A Deep Dive
In this Q&A episode, Andrew addresses a myriad of questions from submissives exploring the intricacies of dominance and submission (DS) dynamics. Important topics include the significance of real-time communication in a DS relationship, managing accountability as a dominant, and the boundaries of consent.
The discussion touches on how to...
Published 10/07/24
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In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew answers questions submitted by our submissive followers. We get into so much in this episode that we had to make two parts!
We discuss the responsibilities of being a dominant, managing resistance, and the intricacies of balancing DS dynamics with other aspects of life. Other questions I answer include advice on the importance of consent, whether it’s...
Published 09/30/24
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This episode coincides with the release of our newest self-study course: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic. In Structuring your D/s Dynamic, we walk you through the same step-by-step process that we use to write our contract, rules, rituals, and create the structure that has allowed our Dom/sub relationship to become such a powerful and intimate connection.
In this episode we delve into strategies for...
Published 09/23/24
In this live stream special, we celebrate the one-year anniversary of Dom Sub Devotion.
We reflect on the journey of Infinite Devotion and share stories about how we got to where we are today in our business, starting from our original name, freeandfit.life. We share about the evolution of our lives and how they’ve changed through this business and how we came to start our podcast one year ago, and how the podcast has changed not only our business, but how we have grown and changed through...
Published 09/16/24
In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of 'topping from the bottom' in a 24/7 DS marriage. We explore how this concept, where the submissive tries to control the Dominant using her submission as the means of control, aligns with the submissive’s use of voice and expression of feelings within a power exchange relationship.
We discuss the challenges of balancing submission and the need to speak up, the importance of emotional safety, and the...
Published 09/09/24
For Episode 50 of Dom Sub Devotion, we poured a cocktail, sat down on a Friday afternoon, and had a fun happy hour discussion about collars and their significance in our D/s dynamic. Enjoy this one, we had fun with it!
We get asked so often about where I got Dawn's everyday collar, and we’re happy to be partners with Eternity Collars. You can shop Eternity at this link, and use our code DEVOTION for a discount of $20 off of $150 as...
Published 09/02/24
In this episode, we dive into how to balance enjoying life's moments while navigating through the deep challenges that come with doing the work to overcome our past programming and conditioning.
This deep emotional work is important, but it can take over our lives if we let it. It can become another version of the same thing we’re trying to escape.
We share personal experiences on maintaining fun, discussing how emotional chaos and personal growth have affected our relationship dynamics....
Published 08/26/24
In Episode 48 of Dom Sub Devotion, we sit down together to have a conversation about a few different topics that have been on our minds in a bit more casual way than normal. We discuss integrating the D/s dynamic into our normal lives, explore the nature of trust, patience, and self acceptance, and look at the fine line between leadership and not having unrealistic expectations.
And as always, this episode is filled with heartfelt moments as we share the experience of our love and our D/s...
Published 08/19/24
In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we take a look at the significance of slowness and presence in the Dominant role.
Dominant men can profoundly impact their relationships by slowing down. Slowing down their speech, their reactions, their movements..everything, both internally and externally. There is a deeply transformative power in grounded, intentional actions and presence.
And through this conversation, we provide insightful tips for men to improve their everyday interactions with not...
Published 08/12/24
It’s time for another Q&A episode! In this one, we go into some of the realities, challenges, and rewards of living in a 24/7 D/s marriage with our answers to lots of our listeners’ questions.
We had some of the most fascinating and thought provoking questions with this episode, like:
How does committing to each other not become self abandonment?
What does physical appearance have to do with Dom/sub dynamics?
Does Andrew allow Dawn to drive?
Is it the Dominant’s fault if the...
Published 08/05/24
Episode 45: Infinite Devotion - Why we have chosen a permanent commitment to each other
In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we discuss the profound impact of the permanent, lifelong commitment we have made to each other. We explore how this “all in” approach has fostered safety, freedom, and a deeper connection…all while making it possible for each of us to be on our individual journey of self discovery.
We share personal reflections from each of our first failed marriages, and what...
Published 07/29/24
Episode 44: Navigating Needs and Wants in a Dom/Sub Relationship
Join us in this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast as we explore the intimate and important topic of how we handle responding to each other's needs and wants within a 24/7 DS marriage.
We discuss the hierarchy of needs that places the submissive's needs first, the dominant's needs second (and why it MUST be this way), the dominant's wants third, and the submissive's wants last, and why this hierarchy helped at the...
Published 07/22/24
Episode 43: Deep Dive into Truth: Integrity, Authenticity, and the Journey to Self-Discovery
In this episode, we explore the profound concept of truth in the context of our dynamic dominant-submissive relationship, inspired by questions we've received.
We dive deep into the meaning of truth, its role in personal integrity, and its resonating impact on our power exchange dynamic. The conversation covers our personal journeys of self-discovery, grappling with external expectations, the...
Published 07/15/24
In this deeply intimate and fun episode, we spend the hour talking about what Dawn's life is like as Andrew's submissive now, after 5+ years being collared, and 4+ years of deep emotional healing work.
We talk quite often about this emotional work, but in this conversation we talk about why it's worth it to confront all of these inner battles and work to release attachments, surrender, and let go of the ego's grip.
The reality is that there is a profound sense of freedom and aliveness...
Published 07/08/24
In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of a 24/7 D/s marriage, exploring the vital importance of both emotional and physical connections.
Highlighting the necessity for dominant men to embrace discomfort and seek truth, we discuss how true freedom and intimate, passionate relationships can be attained.
This episode offers insights for men aspiring to find freedom in their dominance and the women who wish to understand them better.
Join us...
Published 07/01/24
Episode 40 - Ask A Sub Anything Part 2
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Welcome back for Part 2 of "Ask A Sub Anything"!
We had so many great questions for the last Ask A Sub episode that we recorded two full episodes.
In this second part, Dawn answers more questions including: Do you have close friends that you can go to who understands your lifestyle and dynamic?...
Published 06/24/24
Episode 39 - Ask A Sub Anything Part 1
The reason that we started the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast was simple.
Social media started to feel extremely limiting, especially in our ability to answer the real life questions people have for us. We're passionate about helping people live loving, healthy Dom/sub dynamics, and this podcast gives us the opportunity to go deeper on the real life of what it takes to live this way!
And so many of the questions we get are for Dawn...in fact, we had...
Published 06/17/24