I remember back when I chose to date more consciously, I would rather date a man who had fallen down and gotten back up again then a man who had success but I never knew who he was when the chips were down.  This is the way I experience Brian and Nada watching them for the past 16 years...  two successful people individually, as lovers and as parents... yet over time like many couples, a small bump becomes a big roadblock.  They both committed to doing the deep inner work privately with me and joined the inner circle to support their marriage. The result is they're stronger after all these years and even more in love :) I'm so inspired! In this transparent delicious conversation we also discussed... -What it took for Nada to put down a firm boundary with her heart opened delivered with kindness and unattached love that awakened his courage to do the work. -How initially thinking a masculine facilitator would be better yet the wound was centered around his mother, so having a feminine facilitator turned out to be sacredly ideal. -How the core of our issues around intimacy are with ourselves, our unhealed traumas that get triggered by our partner but aren't our partners responsibility.  -How magnificent it is for the entire family's flourishing when traumas are resolved, how a deeper level of presence and ability to respond not react permeates the family with authentic connection, goofy joy and endless possibility. --------------------------------- p.s. Take my complimentary intimacy blind spot quiz: https://app.allanapratt.com/quiz38089841 This assessment has been carefully designed to discover the areas that may be stopping you from attracting or keeping a healthy intimate relationship. ❤️ Schedule your intimacy breakthrough call with me today! http://allanapratt.com/connect The Intimacy Discovery Call goes right to the core of what’s really creating the barrier to deep connection, fulfilling sex, and heart-centered intimacy. It’s a one-hour deep dive that sheds a light on the blind spot that’s been sabotaging your best efforts. You will feel safe, seen, and understood as you move from confused to more clarity, insecure to more confident, disheartened to hopeful. Beyond a shadow of a doubt, you will be one solid step closer to having the thriving relationship you desire, feeling certain you can fully break through your blocks and finally clear on your path to reach your relationship goals. The Magic Mind team created a super offer for me to share with you delicious people.You get up to 50% off your first subscription or 20% off your one time purchase with my code INTIMATE. You can get it at https://www.magicmind.com/intimallana, and redeem the discount code INTIMALLANA. 👉🏼 Sign up for my Complimentary Mini-Course that reveals relationship hacks. Discover the TOP 5 Mistakes that destroy a conscious relationship.  http://allanapratt.com/top5mistakes Register at AllanaPratt.com/BreakthroughWithAllana  As a thank you for listening and following this podcast, use the code READYNOW for a special scholarship just for you.  Featuring music by: Podcast Pop Intro - written by 331Music Chasing the Sunshine - written by pinkzebra