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John Kim and Vanessa Bennett
It's Not Me, It's You
A therapist couple explores and processes their own issues, disproving the misconception that therapists have their shit together and that their relationships are perfect. John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and best selling author of "I Used To Be A Miserable F*ck" and “Single. On Purpose.” Vanessa Bennett is a licensed marriage and family therapist, codependency and mindfulness coach. They both have private practices and live in Altadena, California, where they are raising a baby and two chickens.
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Ratings & Reviews
5.0 stars from 135 ratings
Fresh and therapeutic
John Kim is raw, witty, and vulnerable. Self-aware and willing to learn. A dream come true in a man, right? Ha. I love listening to him on his shorts on the angry therapist.. what surprised me here was Vanessa. I love her intelligent insight and assertiveness.. she helps bring the depth .. she...Read full review »
Forbes93 via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 04/25/21
The best podcast
I look forward to new episodes every week!! I love how open and honest v+j are. The topics they cover are so relatable. I usually don’t like when couples share lessons about relationships, but I actually trust these two because they are therapists who are still learning and growing. Love love love
didilovessonya via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/29/21
So much truth
I love the vulnerability of these conversations between you two. Love how I can relate and not feel alone.
recoveringfromeverything via Apple Podcasts · United States of America · 03/24/21
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