What gets you hot and bothered in the bedroom? In this episode we are continuing our discussion of the 5 Ways to Reignite the 🔥Fire in Long Term Relationships with #4... Increasing sexual and erotic energy! So how exactly do you do that? Maybe it’s being touched somewhere unusual where you’re  not normally touched, or that you don’t normally think of as an erogenous zone?  Like the side of your ankle which André shares a story about.  Or maybe it is something that allows you to prepare and get warmed up for intimacy which Tara shares. We talk about all these things as well as concepts, like responsive desire and how to utilize that and other things to get things hot again! If you missed parts 1 and 2 we talked about: ✅ Having some distance and spending time apart ✅ Being present which includes being physically, emotionally and sexually present with our partners ✅  Interrupting Patterns and Routines If you want to talk to us about what's going on in your relationships and what options there are to get support, book a relationship rescue call with Tara here: https://go.taraandandre.com/relationshiprescue Find out more about us and the services we offer as well as access some other great resources at: https://www.taraandandre.com/ The lifestyle/sex/libertine club we referenced in the podcast is Club L in Montréal, Quebec, Canada. You can find out more about them at https://www.leclubl.com/ The life-changing Cervix Wand that Tara refers in this episode can be found on https://waands.com/products/cervix-wand?ref=taraandandre and you can enter the code TARALYNNEFRANCO to get a 10% discount.