Are there things that you feel you 😩 “suck” at in your open or polyamorous relationships?  Perhaps it seems that others are having an easy time and doing it “right” and that you’re the only ones with an all-you-can-ride ticket on struggle bus! Here’s the TRUTH though... Nobody does it perfectly.  Everyone sucks at non-monogamy at some point.  This can happen at the beginning or at any stop along the way in your journey. We know from our own experiences and from the couples and individuals we've worked with. Just when you think you’ve figured it out, something can come along that surprises and challenges you. That doesn’t mean it isn’t right for you. Maybe you, like André admits on this podcast, sucked at monogamy which is why polyamory is a better fit and is worth figuring out. In this episode we talk about the 5 things you can do when opening an existing relationship or exploring polyamory so you suck less! Determining your WHY Building your self-esteem / security in self Getting clarity on what you want and setting up a secure framework for relationship style you want. Establishing yourValues-Based Agreement™ Learning how to communicate effectively! If you want to start in opening a relationship and would like support so you don't suck, for a limited time you can benefit from a focussed intensive coaching experience with us  that will allow you to MINIMIZE your growing pains & MAXIMIZE your pleasure, connection and security. Find out more at 🏁https://go.taraandandre.com/openrelationshipstartup NOW AVAILABLE: Our Poly & Proud & PRIDE gear! https://my-store-f79154.creator-spring.com/ Want to know more about us, the services and programs we offer or book us for your event or podcast? Visit us at: 👉  https://taraandandre.com/